Well gents I got inspired by those of you who have several SBs that you see and I thought I'd go get one or two more. It's been frustrating and disappointing. I know it's a numbers game but I'm losing excitement to go through the process. The last 2 that I got BCD were duds. So I'm going to just stick with my #1 SB who is pretty amazing. We just got back from a week in NYC and she was fantastic company and a gem to travel with. Our next trip is to Vegas next month to see our favorite 80s band perform. But because I am a guy I do want something causal on the side so yesterday I got together with a provider. It was sooo easy. She is completely happy with it being all about me, she just wants to know what pleases me. So I'll see her periodically when I need that fix. Honestly it's a relief not to be spending time chasing, not having to entertain, think about the woman.