After years of mongering, I’ve transitioned 100% to the bowl and not looking back. Yes it does take some work but once you nail down your method, this is a much better experience (at least for me). Pros: More emotional connection, bareback is always a possibility (with mutual testing), and girls who aren’t high volume compared to a pro. The only drawback are the scammers and flakes, but it’s part of the process! I’m just not sure why I didn’t dive into this world much earlier.

I'm just starting on this, haven't bagged my first (maybe this week!) but I do see the appeal.  Getting there.
I wouldn't have been able to do it while I was married but this seems like a great way now.

I couldn’t agree with you more about the bowl. However, escorts still have their place in my world. While I’ve had good luck with my SB, I hear a lot of stories about the young girls being unreliable (unPROfessional). I don’t have a to of time to participate in extracurricular affairs, so this is very important to me. I have one or two pros that always come they for me when I need them. Also, the pros are very good at making sure my junk is very well taken care of. They know exactly what they are doing and the session is almost always focused on my needs. Babygirl, on the other hand, is sometimes more concerned about her pleasure, and I’ve had a few meet ups where I barely got a bbbj and she’s already trying to stuff my bare wood into her pussy. I’m not complaining, but after a few of those meetings I’m ready to go back to my pro to be treated like a king. I did have a SB who was cock crazy btw. It was awesome, but she wore me out lol.

Why couldn’t you have done it while married? I have two SB’s in rotation and both are fine with me being married.  We also are very discreet and majority of dates are behind closed doors.

That’s unfortunate to hear, but I know what you mean. My fav SB is fantastic in the bedroom and it is very mutually beneficial. She has made multiple references I’m the best she has had and I have introduced her to the world of multiple o’s. She also goes above and beyond for me.

 Not trying to brag or anything like that, but the experienced gentlemen like ourselves know what we are doing compared to the bumbling 20 something bros these girls normally deal with.  

Now the second SB I’m seeing is not as great in the bedroom, but incredibly gorgeous so I’m hoping she will improve with time. But if not, no worries  because I found a gem in girl number one.  

I’m always still entertaining new SB’s because you never know when these relationships will end.  

But at the end of the day, I value the inherit connection have never experienced with pros. Text messages, naughty pics on occasion, conversations that would last for hours before intimacy, and some real caring. With a pro, it’s strictly transactional.  

The transactional relationship I think is perfect for many, but I was looking for more and found it in the sugar bowl.