Seems to be a rash of girls who don't drive and expect me to pay for their Uber to me and back.  Some even ask for a higher allowance because of 'travel time'.  

I'm in LA.  It takes a while to get anywhere.  Just like going to work. You don't get paid for living far away and your boss isn't gonna move the office for you.  Sugaring isn't a work from home gig either.

I'm already paying for dinner and drinks and an allowance so a typical date for me is already $600-700.  Adding $100 for Ubers and a larger allowance or a shorter date isn't happening

I always pay for her Uber, and yes, it can be expensive for the more outlying girls.

Here's the main benefit, and I don't know your financial net worth, but if you get her liquored-up now and then, the last thing you would want is for her to get into a serious car accident while driving back home and reporting that her "sugar daddy" may have contributed to her impaired state.

The other side (or for that matter: she) could easily come after you for civil damages.

I'm generally going to keep an eye on how much she is drinking.  If she's really putting them away we will have a conversation about her getting a ride home.  If she then refuses, I can say I tried.  

I make it a general rule not to have sex with a drunk woman unless we have been in an established relationship.  Too many problems beyond her driving.  There are major consent issues at that point as well.  I would highly suggest everyone adopt this rule for themselves.  Even if she didn't involve the police, I would feel like the biggest shitbag in the world if a woman decided she was so drunk and didn't really want to have sex with me the next day.

I've had 2 long term SBs who had trouble with alcohol.  The first one always wanted me to bring a bottle of wine, which I did.  But it turned out she'd already had a few before we got together, so even though I never spotted any signs that she was impaired, she did wreck her car on the way home from one of our dates.  I felt like crap about it.  The second one's story had a very tragic ending I won't go into here.  But suffice it to say, alcohol is NEVER part of my sugar dating experiences any more.  

Met a potential SB for lunch. At least 20 pounds heavier than her pics. She insisted on coming back to my place.   I really wasn't interested.  But she did. Made us margaritas  then she saw my weed then started doing tequila shots.  I was really trying to get her to stop and leave.  By the time she left around 4pm. She was slurring.  About 9:30 that night she starts blowing up my phone so I turned it off.  Next morning  she calls at 7am.  She had gone out drinking with a friend and hit a wall on the way home. Still was able to drive home. She then wanted me to drive 30 minutes to look at her car.  I asked why. I'm not a mechanic.  Then she calls back 10 minutes later saying it was all my fault and I owe her $2000 for damages. Blocked.

Ouch.  Reading that was really painful.  I'm sorry you went through it.

I appreciate your saying that Netnoy, thank you!