The Erotic Highway

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sweetman 93 Reviews 871 reads
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1 / 7

In a recent thread Herb said "if you prefer to get off and get out, you will save time and (probably) money by sticking to the hooker world."  That made me think back to the Sugar Babies I've known who themselves wanted only to get laid and get paid, nothing else.  There's been a surprising number of them actually.  One I'm currently dating fits the typical SB profile in many ways.  She's a young college girl with a part time job, a body that is a serious 10, no BF and no desire to have one, has a strong sexual appetite and needs some extra cash.  Sugar dating is ideal for her.  But unlike the ones who want lots of attention, conversation, nice dinners out, non sexual outings, shopping trips, etc, etc, she only wants to show up, get laid, paid and then she splits.  Our dates usually last just one hour.  I'm totally ok with this, even more so since she seems quite happy with a modest 200 gift.  So even though I'm open to a more multifaceted arrangement, I'm perfectly happy with the kind of arrangement she prefers.  Obviously if I re-entered the hooker world I'd be spending much more than I do with her.  I wonder how many other SDs here have encountered other SBs who just want the sex, the money, and not much else.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 87 reads
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2 / 7

I kind of like variety so it is hard for me to repeat too often with the same, but yeah, I recently met a SB who has a tight body and seems willing just to meet for sex money and at a good rate.  If I could reduce my desire for variety, it would be with her.

herbtcat 6 Reviews 73 reads
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3 / 7

I too have seen SB's who end up as "get off and get out" BCD dates. In my experience, these SB's usually start out looking for the longer time model, but I'll concede that may be as much due to my telling them I that's what I want as it is their desires.  
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I certainly don't mind this type of session, as it tends to save me money and time with the SB's I'm probably least invested in (pun intended).  
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But I will also observe that those SB's who devolve to the "Fuck and Go" or 'FnG' (Hey! I just created a new Three Letter Acronym, or TLA) mode are the same SB's that tend to drift away or ultimately ghost me. Perhaps they found a bigger wallet. Perhaps I did not satisfy them sexually. Or maybe they just don't like me.  Fortunately, I can shift my rotation around in the short term to allow me to replace losses over time.  
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Life is good
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The Cat

xray84 28 Reviews 80 reads
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4 / 7

I've certainly had  encounters that were strictly "show up, get fucked, leave", but they tended to be one time events, not repeaters. There were exceptions, though...

An interesting one was a young woman who met me for drinks in the hotel lobby, and we had agreed ahead of time that it was BCD from the outset. It was winter and she had on a long coat that she never took off. We got up to the room and she took it off, to reveal nothing but lingerie underneath. I remarked on this(!) and she said "It saves time".

I saw another college girl, a sorority girl who was using SA for college expenses and her sorority dues. She wouldn't stay long, although she was friendly, but we would get right down to business and she was gone within minutes after the sex was over.

But, the best one....started out that way. A local model, heavily tattooed and utterly gorgeous, who was business-like but great in bed, if a bit reserved (at first). She would come up to my hotel room and we would have a great time, and she would leave. BUT...since I turned out to be "not an asshole" this evolved into a real friendship, and I saw her regularly for almost a year and it gradually changed into lunches, dinners, and a lot of hanging out, as well as just explosively good sex.

So, you're right. The get laid and get paid women are certainly there on SA, and the price (where I live) is about 1/3 what escorts charge. The downside is that you have to live with a MUCH higher level of last minute cancellations. But, it's kind of spoiled me and going back to escorts would be difficult, and much more expensive.

GaGambler 123 reads
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5 / 7

That's what I love about the sugar bowl. I like to get laid pretty much every day, but I am hardly up for a full blown date each and every night of the week.  

 
I will typically have one or two girls in my rotation that are "sex only" dates lasting maybe an hour or so. Sometimes I have them come over either very early in the morning  or late at night when I am already in bed. I just leave the door open, they let themselves in, crawl into bed with me and either start or end my day on a good note and then they leave, oftentimes with me NEVER getting out of bed at all during their visit. lol I try to do this at least 2-3 times a week, and typically I pay them the equivalent of a full days' pay at a "real" job, or maybe a bit more than that. I have some of these arrangements last for several months at a time.

ShockBoogie 43 Reviews 94 reads
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6 / 7

I like it.  Will recruit specifically to fill this spot on the roster.   Many SB's say they want experiences, trips, dinners, shows, etc...but I think most are happy with Benjamins and a great romp.

caveat75 9 Reviews 96 reads
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7 / 7

Have been in and out of the bowl for over 20 years. My experience in the US (Midwest) has been maybe two-thirds that I end up seeing, who don’t basically state they only want BCD, want to have drinks or dinner first to make sure you look like your pics and such. After that first meet they usually just want BCD with minimal or no lingering before or after. I have no hard stats, but I tend to find the hotter the SB the more they just want BCD (or maybe they don’t want to be seen in public with me?).  

Outside the US my experience is the opposite (mostly SE Asia and LATM). They usually want to spend a fair amount of time together not BCD each time they meet you. Have met a fair number who wanted to spend an entire weekend together from Friday night to Monday morning, making me dig for excuses to have them leave early.

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