I'm planning ahead for a trip to a major city with a large SB pool. I'll be there for a couple of days and hope to set up one, or possibly two, dates while I am in town. For whatever it's worth to this group, I thought I would share my success or failure. I've appreciated all the comments and advice from others in this group and hope my travel experiment will be helpful, or at least entertaining.
I started by writing a detailed introductory message about me, my travel plans, and what I'm looking for. I tailored a few of the messages based on what I read in the profiles, but for the most part the messages were the same. I then spent a fair amount of time searching for POTs in the target city. I didn't have a pre-determined number of POTs to approach, but since this is largely a numbers game, I figured 20 would be a minimum pool to start with. I ended up sending messages to 26 POTs. Here's a breakdown of what has happened since I sent those messages:
Number of messages I sent: 26
I may send more later, as I still have lots of time before my trip. But based on the response rate so far (see below), I likely will not need to send more.
POTs who have read my message: 16
I targeted "recently active" POTs, because I'm playing more of a short game and don't have time to wait for POTs who are not actively on the site and who do not frequently check messages.
POTs who have responded: 8
50% (8/16) of those who have read my message have already responded. That seems like a good response rate, since I'm not proposing a long-term arrangement. And there's still 10 POTs have yet to read my message, so there may be more responses.
Positive responses: 7
7 of the 8 who have responded so far have been positive. I have already worked out an arrangement with one of them (probably a pro/semi-pro) and am actively messaging with the other 6.
Less positive responses: 1
One responded with a completely unreasonable request, so I countered with a much more modest number. I doubt this one is going anywhere.
"I am not a prostitute" responses: 0
So far no one has sent an angry response. I figured I would get a few of those, but so far none.
I'm open to any suggestions anyone may have to improve my odds, but I'm pleased with how things are going. I'll send updates if anything interesting develops.