Swarms of young women, mostly under 30. Looking for a boyfriend and long term relationship/arrangement. Only wanting to see 1 guy. One deleted her seeking profile in front of me to show how serious she was. On the second date.
Drop dead gorgeous. Allowance expectation in my opening range. Loves to text and send me cute pics everyday. One girl in our first video chat said she wants to get married before she's 25. My 32 year old Asian girl told me last night she considers me her boyfriend now. All we did was order pizza, watch movies and fuck. On the flip side, every woman on seeking I've chatted with over 35 is an escort. A 52 year old sent me her menu on seeking. I didn't reach out to her, it was the first message!
A 52 year old sent me her menu on seeking. I didn't reach out to her, it was the first message!
How could she do that without breaking the new rules and being banned? Was it explicit? Can you post her menu, for our education of what seems to be allowed?
My big wtf is more, why are so many young women all of a sudden wanting serious relationships with older men? Have guys in their 20s just completely fucked it all up for themselves?
My guess is that she will disappear off the site in a few days, either from hiding, deleting, or getting banned.
I have never seen a blatant message like that, but anecdotally I've seen that profiles with more salacious text and/or messages don't last more than a day or two.
The other possibility is that her location will change to another city or even state. That's all the confirmation you need (although the menu is pretty obvious) that this is a pro or scammer. I've favorited local profiles that I want to revisit in a few days or weeks that show up on my Favorited List in different cities many times. And these are usually not dual-city profiles where she says something like home is LA but school is San Diego.
As to serious relationships, that hasn't been my experience, and I think we are in the same general market area. Maybe you are just an "All That!" mature, confident, stud muffin, netnoy. While I am just an old fat, but somewhat wealthy, slob? LOL
Young men mostly grew up playing video games. Aren't getting good jobs so the ladies go to more mature men. Not sustainable in the long run. Ive got 2 gorgeous SBs. One a 30yo Malaysian. The other a 28yo Brazilian. Both speak perfect English. Im 67. Not wealthy. I really don't understand it. But enjoying if while it lasts.
Women from Latin America, Asia, and Eastern Europe are willing to marry men 20 or 30 years older than them as long as the men are good providers. They are very traditional, wanting to be a good housewife who cooks and does the housework. Many American women are spoiled and have GPS.
1. Every recent POT I can get to text starts with a presumption that we will have an arrangement. This is despite the sites' massive rebranding efforts and includes new profiles created after July 1 of this year. It's clear the hypergamy-only schtick ain't fooling anyone.
2. I have been told by my newest POT/SB's that they have been shown warnings for trigger words when attempting to send a message. So at least some are being monitored and warned. But there is still a ton of profiles older than 2025 with clear unambiguous language in their profile text that calls out FWB, "mutual", arrangements, etc.
Some of the profiles are quite explicit about seeking an old fashioned sb/sd arrangement.. One I noticed recently said in her about me: "Experienced in sugar dating" and then in her I'm looking for: "Traditional sugar dating relationship,"
I've also seen some, mostly newer profiles, which indicate they are looking for their true love life partner. But not that many. Seeking is still a sugar dating site. Yay!
They all claim to be marriage-minded, seeking true love, and so on. After I tell them I am only looking for casual fun, they all stop replying, so maybe they are looking for a life-long partner. Somehow, I doubt girls in their twenties would be looking for a guy in their 50s or 60s as their husband or BF unless he is super rich. He wouldn't be on Seeking if he were super rich, just like he would be on TER looking for escorts.
Personally I've not encountered any SB's looking for anything vanilla-serious or marriage. Not one. The over-age-35 women I've dated have not given off escort vibes with me, so no I don't see that trend at all and I've been very active.
I have encountered a LOT of escorts on SA though, of all ages, interested in only a quick hookup for cash. Escorts have been much more common than real SB's by far, in my experience. The only 'swarms' I see are tons of new profiles that don't reply when I reach out to them.
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