I got yet another out of state girl favoriting me today and when I told her thanks, but we live too far apart she said we could start with something online.  I assume she means selling pics and vids, which I have zero interest in.  But I'm wondering if explicit talk on seeking about sending $ for payment of pics and vids is also contrary to their newer more stringent enforcement policies against transactional arrangements.  I mean, it's only pics and vids being bought and sold, not sex or companionship.  Just curious if any of you have experienced censure from Admin regarding talk about "Online arrangements"?

I don't have any idea if they have rescinded the "online" relationship suggestions they allowed during COVID.  But it seems to me that there are two possible scenarios to consider:  

 
1. She may be genuinely interested in developing a long-distance relationship now with the stated expectation that you two will meet at some time in the future if it develops well. This may be an "acceptable" (or at least not prohibited) approach, though it's not likely to be successful.  

 
2. She may be attempting to use the site to sell content.  This is a direct violation of the site rules, even if the "product" being offered for sale is not actual, physical sex.  

 
I think the ongoing presence of long-distance attempts is motivated by the still widely held belief by some POT's that SD's on the site are mostly simps and incels. It remains a low-cost (or zero-cost) method with a high-value return if she can get even one guy to bite.  We can thank the prevalence of Reddit, IG, TikTock, and other sites for spreading this false idea.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

You can go in the spam section.  There is an option for trying to sell pics or promote a business.  I usually just report and block them.  They are really only trying to do sex via video chat or sell pics.  This is a dating site and I'd prefer to keep it that way.