Or put in a none fancy layman term, little head trumps over the big head when it comes to p*ssy!

Background story:

As I have stated a few times in the past, I am not currently active on SA but I do have a fake SD account (as well as a fake SB account) to browse through the scenery if and when bored out of my gawd darn mind!

In the early hours of this AM (just a few minutes past the stroke of midnight) I get a text out of the blue as I'm about to fall asleep! I rub my eyes, put on my reading glasses and I look at the text message as I don't recognize the number. It simply says, "hey (my name) are you still avail and still interested in meeting?". I gather my thoughts and then I recognize this number. This was from a POT SB whom I had found on SA months ago (actually she fave'd whom with I communicated which carried over to txt'ing). About a month ago after she would ghost on me for days on end, she sent me a message informing me that she had met someone (purportedly other than SA) whom she got serious with and in that process she also figured out that the arrangement based relationships were not really the right ones for her (min you this SB's profile was created in mid 2015 so not a spring chicken on SA). Then she goes into rants over the hardship of relationships, betrayals, mendacious people, yada yada! I am no ones idiot and I do recognize psychological projection when I see one but I also like them BSC in the sack and perhaps a trainwreck here and there can be intriguing!

To summarize, we planned on meeting up but having dealt with this one in the past, I will not move my ass into the shower unless I hear back regarding my RSVP later on. Also of no surprise to me that my follow up text this AM also went unanswered. I know exactly as to what I am working against which is a BSC woman psyching herself out and/or possibly the supposed Ex (cheater?) will pay her a booty call visit which will totally set me aside AGAIN! What I am going for me is a fresh start and working my charms on someone clearly on rebound. My expectations are low because that is how my nature has turned into and I don't even like to use the word "hope".

The sane me says, "toss the number again (which is what I had done last month hence not recognizing the # at first) and go radio silent on her". However, my c*ck gets extremely hard thinking of going balls deep when playing with the house money. LOL!

P.S. checked her SA profile (I do remember her moniker) which still shows as deactivated. Now everyone from savant to otherwise, feel free to pile on

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but there is only one really wrong thing you could do with her and that is to buy into her bullshit, which you most definitely are NOT doing.

As long as you don't get emotionally invested in this woman, what you are doing is not costing you anything and you (and us) are getting some entertainment value out of the deal. PLUS, you never know when the stars are going to align and she is going to want to get fucked by you "right now"

As you yourself said, "you are playing with house money" so what's the harm?  

For the record, I am texting/messaging several POT SB's that may or may not end up with us ever meeting, much less in me getting laid. As TER's biggest blabbermouth with some 40,000+ posts on the various boards here, I can hardly claim I don't have the free time to waste. lol

BTW, I had a POT SB who turned out to be the best lay I can remember in recent history and that goes for Civvie, P4P or SB who was with some guy who wanted to marry her, but didn't want to be "trapped" she too ghosted on me a couple of times, and she too was/is completely BAT SHIT FUCKING CRAZY and has since ghosted on me again. but she was most definitely the best sex I have had in years and she never asked for a single penny. I seriously think this woman would have fucked me to death if she hadn't ghosted on me again. She absolutely loved fucking for hours on end. and if she ever texts me again, I'll drop anyone else I am seeing in a heartbeat for the chance to hook up with her again. Yeah, call me pussy whipped, but it was some GREAT pussy. lol

I have learned from hard earned experience that one should not placate to them when they're in break up mode / phase by lapping up all their BS, hence voluntarily or involuntarily letting them circle down the drain farther and further. Instead of sympathy (a woman's visceral reaction) the correct play would be to have them divest from their emotional baggage, albeit brief, by making them smile, laugh and feel sexy enough to make that ever so crucial connection from their brains to their p*ssies via the fastest optical link (which is laughter in women's cases because laughter establishes trust which is what leads them to share their body with us).

They can go weep and whine to their GFs all they want about betrayals, men and their deceitfulness and their duplicitous natures, but when it comes to me getting laid, I will have to constantly distract her to "not be that girl while with me". That has always been my winning ticket in such cases!

Is to go see Dr. Ruth.  I think she is still around.  You seem like a nice and well-meaning guy but your psychobabble is an endless drivel. Plus any guy that feigns a SB profile on SA is just the wrong side of normalcy.

Nah, fcuk you! Very respectfully though

-- Modified on 12/6/2016 5:54:58 PM

END OF MESSAGE

Try out the SB side for a little while. It's hilarious. No wonder women think men are stupid.

To summarize, I got ghosted on yet again. We were supposed to meet last night but I did specify that I would not even step out of the house unless she'd respond to my confirmation text an hour or so before I was supposed to have left (a bit too blunt? Who the heck cares!!!) which was fine by her.  

True to form, I did text and then crickets till 4 hours later on when I get an apology text stating that she had to tend to a friend who was in serious emotional crisis mode (another one? where do these people find themselves from? Perhaps misery loves sympathy is too often true?). She asked me if I'd be willing to reschedule for tonight to which I simply responded (2 hours later) that I had decided to take a break from "sugar" and then I tossed the number, this time for good.

Apparently, some folks are just self-righteous arseholes who fail to see the irony in "feigning" a female profile because the majority of females on SA are presenting a mostly fake side of themselves, at the very least. Since as a POT SD, one has no way of checking out the other SDs, with a little bit of time, patience and know-how, one can easily master the essence of the other side of the sphere. I never communicated with, misled or made propositions to any POT SD under my "feigned" SB moniker and it was all for research ASSHAT (not you Asian, but the other monger).

That said, I'm now so deeply hurt that my thin skin can't take it to be affronted as such any more. I am taking my ball and going home weeping. Good luck to you all in all of your sugar endeavors....

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
NOT LOL