A friend of mine asked me about a boob job. I don't think she is seriously considering it but was just curious about what men and women thought. To my mind, she is gorgeous just the way she is. So I said no of course. She has  B level size by my  uninformed male guess even though I have never seen her completely topless, but she wonders about what other men might think about her being bigger, including her husband.  

She also knows that my SB is very small on top and that I am completely in love with her tiny breasts and very sexy nipples. However, as much as we feel close to each other, she thinks I am the exception.  

This is a question between close but not intimate friends, not any kind of proposition. So, she asked me to ask without disclosing anything  about her. She is interested in both M and F opinions, and from the gals, all of the other potential downsides, especially involving long term effects.

from what she said, you two share an unusually close relationship between M-F friends. Hmm, married bestie on the backburner/backup?

I'm probably a boob man, although i'm also an ass and tiny waist man and face man lol. My wife has implants, a DD, but she was in the porn industry. My #1 SB has fake D. Both have amazingly large areolae, which i find really sexy, and their nipples get erect most of the time, which i also love.

Women in my experience either get bolt ons for work or self-esteem. In this case, it sounds like they're for your friend's self-esteem. Does she want to look better in a dress or actually pull random men's eyes? or just your eyes lol? Sometimes a pointed question is more than face value lol.

I presume you've seen her in a bikini, what is your opinion on the relative proportion of the B cup to her body? You said she's gorgeous "just the way she is." But are you a boob man? Sounds like probably not based on your SB comments.  

Because i'm a boob man and somewhat a professional (don't ask) i'd probably go way into detail with your friend. FOr you, either way tell her she's perfect... especially if you want a shot at the prize one day lol.

Had this gal pal (no longer with us in this life) who over the course of our friendship (which started as escort/client but quickly evolved away from that to being just really close platonic pals) ran her tally to 5 boob jobs.  When I first met her she was natural, but had the scars to prove she'd previously been enhanced and had them removed.  What she had was pretty darn nice I thought, but as the years went by, she talked more and more about getting implants again.  Funding was not an issue, as her sugar arrangement with another man could support whatever she wished to do.  So she shopped and found the best surgeon, and did it.  Christ, she looked incredible, but wasn't satisfied, and had them redone.  Still not satisfied she repeated the process two more times.  Each iteration was amazing, but still not to her liking.  
 
I think that having a positive body image is something that many woman struggle with.  I also think that the only advice that a woman will listen to is that which supports her point of view of needing breast enhancement.  We guys are never gonna figure it out, how a woman can be so unhappy with what nature gave her, but that's just the way it is, and trying to talk her out of breast enhancement is a debate we'll likely loose every single time.

But, I'm more into quality than quantity.  My local ATF has B cups, but are perfect shape and texture/feel.  When she talks about enhancement, I tell her "Anything more than a mouthful is wasted."  I have also spent time with implants which look and feel entirely natural - and then I guess bigger is better as long it doesn't get excessive.  I even like boobs that are imperfect - I'm a bOOb man.  However, the chemistry and kissing/sexual technique/skills far outweigh appearance.
In the lady friend's case, she needs to evaluate "WHY" she is asking the question, and then decide based on her answer to that.  Just my 2 cents worth.

I guess most guys who identify as being a boob man are saying bigger is better.  But I've never felt that way./  In fact, I generally find big, bouncy boobs a turn off.  I LOVE the smallish, size B or smaller titties.  Th e little ones that make a girl seem younger to me.  that's what turns me on and the idea that a woman would have such amazing sexy tits and not like them or want to change them is appalling to me!  I think the idea that most guys like bigger boobs and are truly disappointed by small ones is incorrect.

Most guys always think their dicks are too small especially if they watch porn. Let's be honest, if we can get a penis job that is not too expensive and has very little health risk, many would do it in a heartbeat. A lot of us don't want to look like a freak like Johnny Holmes, but we definitely wish we had a nice big cock like Peter North's. If having bigger boobs helps her self-image and makes her happy, why not? But don't do it just to please other people.

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Yes, I have seen her in a bikini and also braless in a white top. She has the firm, high, and nice tits of a 20-year-old with nice big nipples and areolae. She likes being looked at, but it is more than that. I don't know what it is, and I am pretty sure that she doesn't really know herself.

I don't think that I ill ever get a shot at her prize, but we are both enjoying the look-but-don't-touch part of our friendship.

I met a lovely gal in Toronto more than a decade ago. She was 20-something, Asian Indian in origin, and had beautiful big boobs. Undressed, one boob was obviously larger than the other, which I thought was cute and sexy. She was embarrassed when I mentioned it, but I told her never to change it and how special it made her look.  

She said that the size difference wasn't noticeable when she had a bra on, and that she had no intention of surgical modification. I think that she still would have preferred equal-sized boobs though.