SD brain trust pls advise  

So my college sb has campus housing and it’s a single (no roommates). She suggested meeting in her place to avoid the hassle of hotels etc (although she is ok w either option really)  

On one hand it is convenient, cost effective (even cheap hotels on weekends are actually running 125-150 here) and will lead to probably more bonding w her and being a part of her life  

What downside do you guys see from this and What am I missing that could go wrong ?  Now, looks-wise I could probably pass for an older post  graduate type student but will it raise too many eyebrows? Has anyone done this type of hosting arrangement on a college campus before ? Thanks

Many colleges and universities provide apartment style housing for their students.

...go for it

That's not the part of the body you want to elevate. :p  

 
She may want to carefully consider the appearance to her next door neighbors - who I presume are also college students - that she is ho'ing for sugar cash.  But my take is sugaring among post-millennials is a non-issue these days.  They openly talk about it without judgement, at least in progressive communities.  

 
On the upside for you - beyond the cash savings and avoiding occasional scrutiny from hotel staff - you may just happen to find yourself getting attention from her next door besties, which could lead to even more interesting opportunities.  

 
Just make sure that, like before any BCD time, you have and can proactively demonstrate, mutual consent.  

 
Finally, be aware of housing rules on guests visiting and of parking rules on or near the property.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

All depends on how comfortable you feel w/ her. Most SB's I've been w/ have offered to host at some point after the initial BCDs at a hotel for understandable safety reasons. From the girl's perspective, less $ we spend on hotels is more $ for her over time if that encourages more frequent hookups.

Lol , Thanks papa cat !  

But you have me a bit confused on the “consent “ part : )  … I mean I have her full history of texts from the time I got in touch 3 weeks ago — all her lovey dovey notes, and she is eager to initiate contact each time we’ve met and has verbally said she wants me etc etc. but beyond that  do you mean - I need to record like an audio of her consenting or something  ? Maybe you didn’t mean it in this way but want to clarify just in case. I mean she is an adult 20 going on 21 what else would I need here? There is no alcohol involved in any of our meets anyways

I feel pretty comfortable w her by now… doesnt seem like she is only out to maximize $$ - she never gave me a number, I just give her 3-4c each time.  In fact she has turned down a meet or two when she was busy prepping for her school project/finals. But also super eager to please when we meet.  

Ultimately you never know w this age group but my comfort level is fairly high. I guess I will have to see how her accommodations are like before I get too concerned about maintaining discretion. Even though , as herbcat  said, the sugaring thing is common knowledge across most big metro area campuses, I will indeed ask her to check on guest visitation policies. Even if it’s not her, sometimes jealous or vindictive “friends” can also provoke trouble …

The only experience that I had that was even close to this was my first SB. She attended a large university.  For our first meeting, I picked her up at her place of employment and we went to a hotel.  I then drove her to her on campus residence.  She wanted me to drop her off at the front door of her apartment building.  In talking with her, I knew she had a boyfriend.  I asked her where he lived and it was in the same building! I suggested that dropping her off at the front door might not be a good idea. She immediately saw the logic in that, and I dropped her off at the nearest corner.  Sometimes, we need to remind ourselves that they are young and, often, don’t think things through and/or don’t make good choices.  

I assume that you already have this covered with texts as described.  

 
I'm just pulling ideas from the "what could go wrong" thought trail... If she suddenly decides that getting "caught" fucking an old dude in her housing will ruin her reputation, she could potentially try to make all kinds of wild claims about you to landlords, neighbors, parents and worst case, LE. It would be a stupid idea - but 20-ish women do stupid things a lot.  

 
I think you're good to go.  But like with any risk/reward scenario, have your self-defense materials at hand.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Not only do her peers not care, they compare notes.  

I had a SB that lived in the dorms at a major university and we used her place.  I even met her roommate.  It was great we met there probably 8 times.  But the last time was almost life changing.  
I had just finished spraying her down all over her chest and tummy and there was a knock at the door.  Campus police, (real cops).  Someone ratted her out for smoking pot.  She had some out on her coffee table too. I was detained and questioned.  I came up with saying I’m a friend of her parents and was checking up on her since she was away from home and depressed.  They let me go.  

Her dorm was great until it wasn’t.  

Lol, this is hilarious   you definitely need to write a memoir on your sugaring experience…. if this was on pornhub, the cop would prob have jumped in for a 3some