Hello love goddess. I am a mature medical professional (neuropsychologist in pain management)with a question for a knowledgeable female like yourself. I am in a relationship with a young woman 30 years my junior. She actually introduced me to anal sex several years ago...something I had thought about before but never really pursued with anyone (don't think I am prude, I am from the free-love generation). But our first time was a surprise when she just slipped me in anal during sex. I enjoyed it alot and we occassionally have anal sex now. She seems to enjoy it, but in the past has refused at times,or pulled away once started, and once even started crying (and then told me her first sex experience was date rape at 15 or 16 years years of age). However,my question is this: I discovered that she really likes to finger me anally and it will bring her to orgasm very quickly if I am touching her vulva and clitoris (and I mean quickly). She really likes doing this to me and it certainly excites her. Is it common that women get turned on by anally fingering a man?