Of course I agree 100% with Gaga's comments.  But one of the biggest challenges facing SDs and SBs is vetting your new potential friends.  It's the most unsafe aspect of sugar dating, especially from the girls' point of view. And it's the one single aspect that continues to concern my otherwise GGG wife regarding my participation.  I have her support and encouragement to be ethically non monogamous and poly whatever, but safety is her big concern.  As well it should be.  I don't know of any way to share review type information without ruining the bowl.  Maybe somebody smarter than me can figure it out. In the meantime, sharing safety protocols and best practices and using common sense and situational awareness continues to be our best, if incomplete, solution.