The Erotic Highway
After it ends, do you still send gifts?
AsianManNOVA posted a reply (thank you, Sir!) in my recent update to a post on Worst 3 Words. This motivated me to create a new post that expands on his reply:
After an arrangement ends, presumably amicably, do you ever (or still) send her any money, gifts? Do you even stay in touch with herm, assuming she is open to the idea?Obviously, specific circumstances can and will pre-empt your behavior if she wants to move on with no ongoing communication. But many times, maybe 50% for me, we remain on good terms and will even stay connected by social media, text/email, etc. - only my SD accounts, of course! So what is that after-arrangement situation like? I have maybe 4 or 5 post-arrangement SB's that maintain a connection with me. Two of them will even stop by for a one-off BCD from time to time. For others, we regularly, if infrequently stay in touch. I may even send her small (less than $100) cash gifts in certain circumstances (birthday, believable emergency, etc.) with no expectation of any reciprocity. Why? Perhaps I just appreciate the emotional connection we had (and have) and that nurturing part of me feels good about "paying it forward" to those who are genuinely working to improve themselves. Perhaps I am, in my core, a nice guy and I believe she understands that being nice does not equal being weak. Perhaps I'm just a sucker...? Either way, the actual funds sent aggregate to a relatively small amount, compared to my budget for Sugaring.
NOTE: I should point out that although I firmly adhere to the principal of no money IN ADVANCE of BCD, this action falls into my other principal of "never burn bridges."
So what about you? Do you stay in touch after the end, assuming both of you are agreeable?
If you do, has that ever resulted in a supplemental BCD or perhaps some other tangible benefit? Or do you get some level of personal satisfaction from helping with no expectation of returned value?
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