These ladies are delusional. Just getting rid of a SB because she "needs" $2000/month. That got me thinking. How many guts really can afford that? Obviously income and costs vary my region but if 10% of males make 120k+ and you throw out married men who won't use SB or males who won't P4P, where are you at? 3% willing and able to pay that? (Maybe) Where I live in Socal , housing is so expensive that you'd have to be making at least $150k to budget $2k for SB. So if the percentage is 1% that can afford to SB at $2K then these ladies are fighting a math problem. And once there's a problem the guy will hit the rip cord fast.
I've never tried to crunch the numbers as you have done, but my gut feeling is that in order to be a successful SD you have to be at least moderately affluent. However you define the term. Imo that means zero debt other than a mortgage, above average income, and a solid net worth above $1mil. That level of affluence should allow you to easily spend some hundreds of dollars on each date without breaking the bank. But not thousands! It's true that there are ultra wealthy guys out there, the ones in the hundreds of millions, or even billions range. But they are extremely few in numbers, and they are not likely to be trolling SA for dates! Ladies who expect $2k per date are misinformed or delusional about their audience.
That's $2000/month. Not $2000 per meet. With no "dates" in public. I'm assuming she's basically an UTR escort.
Yup, I misread that. But even $2K seems high to me. It would basically eat up my sugaring budget on just one girl. Not something I'm willing to do.
If you see her four times a month that seems reasonable.
4 times a month is reasonable. I'm just saying that the percentage of guys that can commit to that is very low. Also, we never did anything than have her come to my place and fuck. No in public activities. No travel. Which IMO makes her an UTR escort. So why commit?
Agreed...seems more like an escort.
So, after some good consistency and chemistry, I pay my SBs rent. But, we must have 4 dates a months minimum. Every weekend we are together. Many overnights. We talk consistently. We go out on dates, she dresses up and looks cute for me. Great sex.
She is not allowed to see anyone else. If I find out, she's dropped and I know she can't cover her rent on her own. She knows I see other people in a limited amount and make sure I'm current on my tests. I've had two SBs at one time in this scenario but it didn't last long.
Key takeaways, she has to show the commitment to you to be where you want and how you want consistently. Set the groundwork on what your expectations are. Mine are clear. We are dating every week.
If you don't know, don't commit. No reason to not be happy with both.
Don't worry about calculating the mathematics of the SB universe, but establish a real relationship and try to make it work!
Assuming the minimum wage is $15/hour, if working 8 hour days, 5 days a week, and before taxes, that $2600 a month.
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Of course if you are rich, that amount isn't really significant in the decision process. However, it cannot be denied that for a few weekend hours, four times per month, it is pretty generous.
Exactly. GPS. I'm willing to play poker with my lady. As matter of fact we are meeting tomorrow and she either goes with my plan or were done. It all comes down to us both being happy or it's over. It is a rental.
Both are worth the expense at first then a fun steady zone settles in. But you are starting to gripe about the cost. Then the "car" is starting to age. Not perform as well and is not reliable. But you still have the payments. Eventually it's time to trade it in for a less expensive, lower maintenance yet fun alternative.