So I've been checking out another site (Secret Benefits) with rather low expectations. Few profiles in my area, little to no useful info in profiles and lots of looks at my profile from non-local POT's.
About a dozen have messaged me - messaging back costs 10 credits (about a dollar) so I've only been messaging when the POT was local, hot and had no red flags. All of my messages have been unanswered - until today. I sent a message to a 26 yr old hot, skinny blond last Monday suggesting we meet on Wed or Thr. Her profile location is in my area and her "last logged in location" was from a location within 5 miles of me. Today, her "last logged in location" is in an area about 45 miles south of me, and I got this:
"I'm sorry I'm just getting back to you, my week has been a little hectic, I'm trying to find a place to stay since my roommate went to jail, I couldn't pay the rent all by myself so I'm having to move out of my apartment with no where to go.. How is your week going hun? I am free all next week if you would like to set up a meeting.. What are you looking for in an arrangement?"
If your Spidey Senses are not on full alert you are thinking with the wrong head. I am toying with the idea of replying that I want to meet tomorrow and see how/where she tries to set the hook and ask for cash - probably a lot of cash - upfront. Should be interesting and I'll update this thread if anything happens.
I tried SB and gave up as it had so few women in my area. Plus, it is one of those sites that creates fake profiles. There are real women as I know I have seen profiles on there that I have seen on SA. Of course, I'm not the silver tongued devil that you or GaGa are, so your mile may be better than mine.
One SB I actually went BCD once on WYP told me she is also on SB, so I figured I would give it a try. Replied to nine POT SB's who messaged me first, and all went radio silent since. Made me think this site is a scam.
Absolutely none of the profiles that contacted me EVER contacted me back after I spent the 10 credits to see what the initial notes were. Usually generic stuff, like "Hi baby, write back" and various forms of greetings. The ones I contacted first never got back either. Whereas SA I have had quite a bit of luck. Stick with SA, Secret Benefits sucks.
So I did indeed reply and suggested a meet date and location. It took her 3 days but she responded and agreed to meet tomorrow afternoon at a local Starbucks. No phone number offered by her and non provided by me, so I'll put this at a 35% chance she will actually show up.
It is I who must stand corrected, as she was NSNC.
As far as I can tell, she never even logged onto the site once she "agreed" to meet.
In my defense I only gave it a 35% chance that she would actually show up. I'll stay on SB long enough to use up my remaining credits. But I have zero expectations for any success.
As before, if she tries to contact me, I'll be most interested in how she rationalizes her no-show. Should be entertaining, if nothing else.
So I still have credits left over and have been skimming the new profiles, See one for 19 yr old cutie who presumably lives less than 5 miles from me. I break my usual MO and 2 days ago I message her first with a general "Hi I like your profile, please look at mine" message and today I get a reply that looks like it's from page 1 of the scammers and GPS playbook:
"Hmm, sounds interesting How do I know you can really be my sugar daddyyy"
I sent a reply 10 minutes ago - her status shows as online now...
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