We all know about the 'ebb and flow' of the sugar life.
Could be I'm just seeing an abnormal tendency for my SBs to freely offer up their friends and other girls they know. However, I think there might be more to it. The cool part is few of the new 'future' SB know nothing about Seeking...other than they know the concept. Currently, I"m banging my #3's ex-roomate and then her (#5??) good friend. God - only to be younger again! I'm working super hard (pun intended) on a good diet, almost daily exercise and telling myself this all may come crashing down eventually. If I don't LOLYou can have multiple again. I asked about deleting mine and starting over, they confirmed I don't have to. So, can have a lurker and a communication account.
Have you tried it yet?
Do you need to use the same name?
And the same pics? Or at least real (selfie-verified) pics?
Life is good
The Cat
Real selfie verified. I did not post any photos to my alt account. If I ever decide to sub with it instead, I will.
I'm keeping the email that said I can have multiple accounts in case the policy changes or I get on the naughty list. Basically using the troll account to make sure my main SB/GF does not have an account. Thankfully, she is happily kept from what I can tell.
your time and especially your money on Seeking.
I've been off for three months and really can't come close to satisfying all the pussy I now have available.
One clue: the girls you meet there know other slutty and exciting girls who may have never heard of Seeking.
In this way you are fully vetted, won't run across crazies and in my special needs (lol,) can easily put together FFM situations as I just I set up for tomorrow
What are you talking about?
Not paying a second subscription. Not even paying 1 at the moment. Just having a second account because my current SB/GF could be lurking on the site. If she blocked me I would not be able to see her profile. IE she could be lying about not seeing anyone else.
Euro Guy, if you're not on Seeking, which other site are you usung? You didn't mention it in your post.
I think its secret benefits
I don't use any other site.
What I have discovered, and it should have been obvious long ago.
Is my rotation of three luscious girls know many other girls like themselves whom are not particularly jealous about sharing.
On occasion, my tiny rotation can extend out to 4-5 ladies whom I can partake of without any knowledge of rules or prices established by Seeking.
I don't necessarily get any bargain prices bc they all know each other and what I have given....but equally, they all seem happy with whatever I offer .... so refreshing.
We all know about the 'ebb and flow' of the sugar life.
Could be I'm just seeing an abnormal tendency for my SBs to freely offer up their friends and other girls they know. However, I think there might be more to it.
The cool part is few of the new 'future' SB know nothing about Seeking...other than they know the concept.
Currently, I"m banging my #3's ex-roomate and then her (#5??) good friend.
God - only to be younger again! I'm working super hard (pun intended) on a good diet, almost daily exercise and telling myself this all may come crashing down eventually.
If I don't LOL
Enjoy it while you can. It will all come apart eventually. That's the downside. During COVID was my best when I had 3 SBs that knew each other. They decided they didn't want me playing outside of the 3 of them, safety reasons. So they coordinated the schedule to get me laid twice a week. I didn't even know who I was going to see. It eventually fell apart. But a great six or seven months.
I've been trying to work that angle for a long time. Sadly, virtually all of my past and current SBs' either don't know another POT who might be interested, or they just won't admit it. The most obvious exception is some of my Porn Star SB's. But as much as having my Porn Star show up with another (or two!) Porn Stars sounds awesome, it's, well, complicated.
There is a paradox in the Adult Industry. While perhaps 30-50%+ of the female performers will at some point in their career do meetups, sugar dating or flat out escorting, the topic is taboo within the industry, and especially at industry events like Exotica and AVN. So, either your SB has to have a real friend (i.e.: More than doing a collab or making IG or OF content), or they have to have an agreement with another PS for "referrals." I can't exactly use them like Amazon. "Hey, could you call up Lulu Chu or Chloe Tempe and have them bang me, please?" That probably won't work.
More likely (and what I've already experienced), if she has a PS friend, it won't be someone you want (because she's over 50 now and looks like it). And even if she has a desired friend, you are looking at 2x an already premium allowance because... Porn Stars. The only time I was able to pull together a PS threesome was with 2 SB's I had separate arrangements with who agreed to a 3-way after I took them out for some high-end activities sprinkled with a fair amount of wine and gourmet food. But that evening cost me an all-in of about $2,400. Mr. Fish knows this space better than I, as he claims to have had real-life PS girlfriends. If you're here, Sir, please feel free to chime in.
Anyway, I digress. Euro-Guy, if you have any tips on how to get a current SB to willingly pull in her (let's hope hot) friends, please share, friend.
Life is good
The Cat
I don't think I have any unique insight on recruiting future SBs via the current ones except to say I never really tried very hard. Somehow, I assumed the girl between my legs would take offense if I even asked, or equally might be jealous.
And, bc I'm in my 70s, many of their GF have little interest in guys the same age as their granddad LOL. Fortunately, like sweetman, I seem to look and act more like late 50s (having prominent abs seems to go a long way), so if I get the lady to meet up, there's never been a complaint.
Might just be just good fortune, but "we" recruited the last two girls by sending a vid of my #2 displaying her oral skills on me in real time...I like to take breaks during all the activity, so it was no bother to wait for her engage in a couple quick texts!
All this shit does take seemingly endless moooney tho. For a threesome, I offer 1K for the first meet-up as an incentive.
PS: really enjoyed your digression into the porn star world...altho, I don't use the "star" word much anymore. Mine was a lovely 30 yo who was alot of fun, although nothing like her videos that she relished on sending me a couple times a month. She did everything perfectly, but nothing too wild and she hated all her female porn friends, so it never progressed to anything exotic with them.
Ive got a long time SB that I was referred to by her friend. I met this asian SB . Went to her place to play. Afterwards she texted me asking if Id like yo meet her friend. So I went back to that same apartment and bed. But this time with her friend. 5 years later and still seeing her