I've never flown in an out of town SB before, but I'm thinking about doing so.  About 6 weeks ago I was visiting another city and wound up having a date with a lovely young SB there.  I figured it would be a one and done experience unless I returned there, which I have no immediate plans to do.  but she has asked me when I'm coming back.  So I said not sure, but would you like to visit me here?  She's asking how that would work and I realize I'm not sure.

I imagine I would buy her a round trip plane ticket, pick her up at the airport and get her a hotel room close to home.  I imagine she'd stay for 2 nights, so maybe 48 hours total.  I'd expect to provide food, entertainments, etc.  And I'd of course expect to enjoy some BCD time with her.  

If you've done this before, did you spend the night in the hotel with her?  Did you spend every hour together or give her some alone time?  Did you provide other entertainments, sightseeing, restaurant meals, etc?  And the big question is, how much Sugar did you give her?  

When I met her in her city I gave her $500 for one date.  That's a lot by my local standards, but I figured for a one time thing with a cute stranger willing to come meet at my hotel for a playdate it was ok.   For comparison, I give my local SBs $250 for an afternoon date.  What other questions should I be asking?  How much pre-planning would you do, or just play it by ear after she arrives?  I may be an experienced SD but I'm a newbie at this aspect of the hobby!

which is a somewhat more expensive proposition.
ppm-wise it's whatever they got in LV.
It does tend to be a bit expensive because it's basically "all inclusive."
I would Uber them to their hotel and anywhere else they wished to go - some had friends they could meet up with.
Expense wise, the hotel (has to be a bit upscale with a pool and someplace to eat) was the biggest item.
Unlike you, I could just invite them over to my house for BCD time.  
But yeah, if they don't know anybody (minus male friends!) then you will also have to provide entertainment: dinners/shows/events, etc.
Honestly, I stopped bc it was a lot less just to double my ppm for local girls: and of course, many, many more were alot more interested.

Seeing how you haven't received any responses .
Think HerbC got all these boys to start "thinking budget"   LOL
Although I already mentioned it, the possible 'deal breaker' tends to be the hotel expense plus meals, etc.
That, after a few days will exceed the air fare and start adding 1K to the long weekend (3+ days).
On paper it sounds feasible, but eventually I found the local fauna with a couple hundred extra added start jumping out of the wood-work.
But if you do venture towards this, let us know how it factors out.

Yeah, I expected more responses, but I guess the entire fly-me-to you scenario is not as common as I thought. I totally agree that the expenses can quickly add up!  But here's one possible exception: A SD buddy of mine and I were dating the same local SB for nearly a year before she moved away. She has said she misses me and would love to return here for a visit.  My buddy and I could split her expenses and she could make more money visiting us both.  I'll def let you know if that, or any other variation of the fly in ever actually works for me. I the meantime, I'm considering another trip out of town to revisit the beauties I met last trip.  And your suggestion is spot on about upping my ante for the local fauna. I was talking to a new local and asked her what her ideal arrangement would be.  She replied $700 per visit!  When I add my travel expenses to the gift$ I've given my out of town sugar babies, $700 starts to seem almost reasonable!

You couldn't just park the RV somewhere and use it?   LOL
A hot San Diego girl mentioned to me how she did a 2X per month visit to her BF
Of course, she stayed with him.
Which is the essence of bringing any girl to see you.
However, I do love reading about you guys and the 'sex tourism' scenarios!
So whatever you do, please keep us  up up to date.

I played around with this model while I lived in the Bay Area of NorCal.  Fly a SB from LA to San Jose, pick her up at the airport and spend 2-3 days together.    

 
For me, I had the best results when I planned out a full itinerary for the event, including some alone time.  But there's a few dynamics that contributed to my successes.  
1. She really was interested in the travel bit - in this case wine tasting in Napa, and night scenes in San Francisco.  
2. She was comfortable with her typical allowance PLUS all expenses paid and some additional cash for shopping, etc.  
3. We got along well, didn't often have those awkward periods where no one wants to talk, and there was enough interesting non-BCD activities to the trip interesting and fun for her even without the sex.  

 
But here are what the worst results looked like:  
1. She never go on the plane and ghosted me. Plane fare, pre-paid hotel expense, wine tour expense fees all wasted.  
2. She got the plane - with a guy! and ducked me in the airport. I had to see vids from her IG of both of them at baggage claim.  
3.  She arrives  and immediately complains, bitches, asks for more cash, and I end up sending her home early (after paying the change fee for the airfare).  

 
Ultimately, higher risk, but potentially higher reward.  Try to mitigate the risk as much as possible by pre-discussing expectations.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Those three worst results sound like a nightmare!  Thanks for sharing, not sure it's worth the risk!

A time or two I flew an ex pornstar out of Atlanta to NC for a overnight visit.  I had seen her several times as a outcall  previously when I traveled through Atlanta. It was OK but handing over $4000 in cash when I picked  her up at the airport  was not the payoff I expected . We had better and hotter meetings for two hours when I was traveling through. I also had her meet me in a rest stop outside Atlanta in my RV. She was the best and  hottest provider I have ever seen  but it seemed the more I spent  the less satisfaction I got.  
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