I am in a fast and furious affair with a provider. BDSM is my new world and pleasures. My question and delimma sort of deals with my response to an eager lover. Many have stated "spilling a second cup". I on the other hand orgasm without ejaculate the first time and blow a large amount on the second orgasm. It is if I am "loading the barrel" the first orgsam. This has been benfitted my present endevors to the delight of my latin lover/slave princess. Is this common or normal? I am not using enhancement drugs though I do take medication for an enlarged prostate.

And believe me my first orgasm is tremendous.

. . . the final O with ejaculation tends to be intense. For me, ED drugs tend to delay ejaculation and more likely induce mutliple orgasm.

Yes, yes, yes, file 37,

It's very normal! That's all some guys do. And of course, the reverse is true as well. So go ahead and enjoy your current exploits and dwell no more.

We salute you both,
the Love Goddess

Can you be more specific? What are ED drugs? I sometimes have to really work to get even one goal & a few times I've been unable to score at all. Hearing about guys who can go 2 or even 3 times in an hour or seems pretty unbelievable.

Dear JstaQuestion,
ED drugs are "Erectile Dysfunction" drugs with names like Viagra, Levitra, Cialis. For a textbook explanation, please go to the various brands on the Net. You may be a suitable candidate. Check out the Net and then make an appointment with your physician.

It's never a bad idea to check with the doc first,
the Love Goddess

. . . I was referring to Viagra, Levitra and Cialis.  I do not get multiple ejaculation from them; actually they make my ejaculations more difficult. I was saying that with delayed ejaculation, achieving multiple orgasms is easier.