Personally, I like dating women that are so hot that people are going to stare at them no matter who they're with. lol

 
I kind of like it when people "stare and wonder" What does that guy have going for him to get a hottie like her?  It also attracts other women like flies to honey. Nothing makes an ordinary guy look better in the eyes of hot women like already having a hot woman on his arm.  

 
BTW I doubt any of the white/black/Latino guys are mistaken as the "fathers" of these hot oriental girls, but I will confess it has happened to me, but I have slanted eyes. lol  About ten years ago I was out with a hottie who was around 18-19, some twenty year old kid came up and asked for permission to talk to my daughter. I was very polite, I simply asked him if he wanted to leave under his own power, or if he preferred to be carried out. lmao

 
My point here is that if it bothers you, don't do it. Quite frankly I would never be caught dead dating an "age appropriate" woman personally. I am sixty years old, do you know what sixty year old women look like? I won't even date women twenty years younger than me because they are too old. lol

She's my: secretary, nurse maid, business client, accountant, lawyer, chiropractor, seamstress,  and my personal favorite because it always shuts them up:  parole officer.

When checking in to hotel with them standing next to you  ... everybody knows what is going on.  Let 'em drool.

I'm 57, fat and white.  If I go out with a 20-ish, spinner, SB and someone stares I just don't give a fuck.  But it is more intense when I am with a AA  SB  - at least from black people who are in the area.  Black women seem to stare at her and black guys seem to stare at me.  I just don't give a shit. If we bump into someone I know (this has happened - bumped into a cousin at a movie theatre) I just introduce her as "my friend".  But I'm not married and most of my close friends are used to seeing me with 20-sometghing dates/GF's - though only one buddy knows I use Seeking.  
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As to Asians with hyper-GPS, it's as good a rationale as any other for why I can't seem to connect. I did have a Filipino UCLA student SB for a while, and she gladly accepted $$$ per met with no negotiation. She was not interested in anything other than BCD and just loved to give head and swallow.  I had to spend a full 3 milliseconds considering that deal before I signed that contract. Time well spent.  
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As to contributions to the SMF (Single Mother's Fund), I don't mind it as long as my Need-A-Daddy-Radar doesn't alert. But seriously, checking the "Prefer not to say" box on her profile is just a stupid confirmation that she has at least one rug-rat.  There's probably a whole string of posts to be (or already) written on sugaring with young mothers. Negotiating sugar, time together, birth control/STD prevention, hosting, ex's visibility/interference, her family's visibility/interference, baby sitting & other baby costs, travel, and more must be approached and managed differently than for an SB with no kids.  
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Life is good
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The Cat

I took a young-looking SB to a live-music bar in Santa Monica recently and was engaging in some PDA. She truly doesn't give a fuck what people think, so it got a bit raunchy.  

When I went to the bathroom, a waitress and a manager approached her and asked her if she needed help. LOL They said that they would eject me from the bar if she was in trouble and needed assistance. Hahaha. She told them that I was "her boyfriend" and to "leave us alone."  

We stayed there for another hour or so and I got explicitly dirty looks from both of them. To be fair, though, she looks like Lil' Bo Peep and she ordered a glass of orange juice, so I'm not surprised.  

I gave Zero Fucks.