A POT SB asked me how much I will offer to meet. I said 350 and she said that's fine for a restaurant. WTF? I guess she will want at least 800 for BCD. She is hot but not that hot. She is from the Czech based on the country code of her cell phone number. She claimed she is here for work for about a month. I was lowballing a bit to see what her counteroffer was. I will probably strike if it's no more than 500 just because I have never fuck a Czech girl before.

Czech girls, especially pros,  tend to have the typical Slavic girl attitude that a man has to be a man.

 
If you meet her, I recommend being confident and standing your ground. Because I can almost guarantee that she will. A little study of Slavic negotiation might be of a little help.

It's not clear from your post.  

 
I assume you politely rejected her offer and countered with a suggestion to talk by face time or just meet briefly for a beverage.   If that's what you did, then you can use the "here's my budget"* technique to make a reasonable offer, and back it up by suggesting you plan on meeting her several times before she leaves for home.  

 
*"Here's My Budget" means you stay away from talking about if she is "worth" $800 to fuck.  She is, just ask her! LOL  Instead, talk about what YOU can budget to see her and then help her do the math from multiple meets.  

 
Ex: "Well my budget is closer to $400 for a full date, but I'd like to see you at least 4 times before you head home."  
Then let her do the math - $400 x 4 meets = $1200 versus $800 x 1 meet = $800.  

 
Yes, it's a logic failure since you just confirmed you have at least $1200 for her.  But most (legit) SB's will choose to see the advantages of "guaranteed repeat dates" over the total allowance per period.  

 
I'll be interested to see how you make out (pun intended).  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

The most I ever paid was 150 on WYP and we didn't even get to the negotiation part on that date. She was obviously a professional dater relying on her looks to get offers.  I get offers of 300-400 constantly on WYP. I don't know if they are for BCD or not. If they are, I can go for that. The problem is I have to spend 60 credits (30$) to accept an offer of 300 not knowing if it is for BCD or not so I always reject them. If the offer is 100-150, I will usually accept it, but I will ask them if they are willing to go BCD after the first date. If not, I just cancel my offer.

 
Here she made it clear that 350 is only good for a dinner date. Maybe she will be willing to go lower but I know she will not meet for free since she lives about an hour away. I am not willing to spend $ on M$G knowing this will not work out most likely. I  told her my budget doesn't allow it and ended it like that. As I said, she is hot but not that hot.

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Most of us on this board don't offer money for a M&G, and I haven't heard from anyone who says it's worthwhile.. conceivably the super-rich don't mind but these gals are either scammers or hoping for someone from the top 0.001 percent. I have a story about this I'll share later.

All my arrangements have remained PPM from beginning to end, even the one that lasted 3+ years.  I'll never do a time based allowance. It inevitably leads to bad feelings. For example, the month is coming to an end and you haven't seen each other enough.  So she starts to feel obligated to see you, even if she's not eager, cuz she wants next month's allowance.  And you start to feel entitled, as in, she owes you another session or two since you paid her.  Allowance based arrangements lead to feelings of obligation and entitlement which are serious buzz kills.  Whereas with a PPM arrangement, at least you both know every time you get together that you both truly want to be there.

I'll never pay $ just to meet a girl for drinks or a coffee date.  Any of them who ask for $ to meet are waving a huge red flag in my face.  I suppose those of you who have had good results from WYP will disagree with me.  But if a girl asks me how much I'll pay her to meet I reply zero.  I'll tell her this is sugar dating, and the sugar only starts to flow once we have established an arrangement.  We haven't done that yet.  We should both be equally motivated to invest an hour of our time to meet and see if we both like the vibe. Every one of my successful arrangements has begun that way, with a successful, unpaid, coffee date.  When I was a newbie and learning from my mistakes I did agree to send $ a few times, in advance, and they always ghosted, NEVER showed up.