I re-started my subscription to SA 5 days ago and received about 40 replies to my introductory targeted message. Of those one resulted in BCD already, but amazingly not a single one was willing to go to a coffee m&g without assurance that there would be immediate action following it.

But I don't do M&G
Invite the lady over to the house
90% we click and its immediate BCD time
The others, just ship them back on Uber, no harm...no foul!

What city are you in and what search parameters are you using (age, race, etc.)?

One of the SB's I met was telling me how all her friends compare notes on results from various SB sites.  There are less and less "babes in the woods" ... they know from friends what to expect even if it is their first time.  Since the goal is money, it doesn't take long for word to get around how to maximize profit and minimize time/effort.

Should I be on more sites than just SA??? If so, which one(s)????

Unfortunately I live in a secure building with front desk staff so I'm embarrassed at having a stream of young girls  check in to come and see me   Secondly I can't bring myself to reject and uber a girl home if I don't like her.  I once ubered a girl home after our encounter and she changed destination and rode all over town on my dime. Uber confirmed there's nothing I can do about it. A rejected girl is ripe for abusing my uber.

I do agree there is a risk in inviting girls to your place sight unseen of having a few pigs show up, now THAT would embarrass me as I have a certain reputation to uphold. I may not have morals in this regards, but I do have STANDARDS. lol

where I would have a girl over to my residence sight-unseen.  Just seems like a recipe for disaster.  In fact, I only occasionally have hookers over who are long-term regulars or that have become my outside girlfriends.  A girl has to convince me she will NEVER go BSC no matter what might happen in the future in order to get inside my home.  That alone eliminates a hell of lot of women.  Lol

But it's never happened to me in almost three years.
After maybe something like 20 invites, of which 18 went to BCD, I never had a babe go totally BSC.
otho, equally doubt I would have picked it up at coffee/drink M&G.
Some totally wacky chick taking an Uber all over town sounds funny, but she really couldn't run up the tab more than I would have been able to pay anyway  lol
These days I concentrate exclusively on the less than 20 yo group...finding they are are a lot easier to work with at the start.  A couple were a few pounds over at arrival, but 20yo pussy is still tight!
The two I sent back on Uber were so drugged out, I suspect they didn't know what was happening til the next morning anyway!

While I don't necessarily recommend that others "do as I do" I have had literally hundreds of Hookers, Sugar Babies, and Civvies to my home, and yes, a lot of them were sight-unseen. I have never had any serious issues doing this, I had one "cash and dash" some twenty years ago or so, and more recently I have had a couple of catfishes show up that I had to turn away at the door, and one supposed sugar baby that turned out to be a pro, "with management" who I ended up throwing out once I found out about her "manager". Fortunately I live in Texas, not CA, and she apparently believed me when I told her if she had any thoughts about returning to my door with her "manager" in tow, she would be well advised to not stand directly in front of the door as I might just shoot "through the door" instead of opening it and I would hate for her to become collateral damage. lol

...to allow first meet at my place. But I have tried it a few times when she looked super hot and made it clear she was only interested in BCD. Here's how two of these worked out for me:  
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1. Pushed hard to meet asap, no car and insisted I send an UBER. When she got to my place I saw her pics hid an extra 15-25 pounds of chubby - disappointed. Plus, soon after she walked in the door, she freaked out when she discovered that she had lost one of her earrings. She said they had been a gift from her now dead grandma and wanted me to recall the UBER to look in the car... 45 minutes later the driver shows up - no earring. I put her back in a different UBER (long story about rules for ordering an UBER) and sent her home.  Note: this was 3 years ago and she STILL messages me on KIK asking to come back.  I haven't blocked her or responded, 'cause it's so funny to see her still trying.  She didn't abuse my UBER account, but as mentioned above, if you put a SB in an UBER you are at risk of her running up hundreds of dollars in fees.  
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2. Messaged a 28 yr old brunette - stacked - high maintenance - air headed. She insisted on meeting at my place for BCD asap.  My Spidey senses were somewhat alerted, but we did a voice call and she seemed new, timid, and relatively harmless.  I offered to do M&G first at a Starbucks but she just wanted to come over and earn her allowance. (She had a 30-40 minute drive from downtown and didn't want to risk not getting an allowance.)  She shows up, parks about a half block down the street, texts me when she can't find my home and I guide her to my door.  She walks in maybe 2 steps across my threshold, stops, tells me she forgot something in her car and turns around to walk out. I wait about 5 minutes and text her... "you ok"... no response.  She just bailed.  Later that night she blocked me on the site.  
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So now I just insist on a public M&G 1st.  Not worried about neighbors seeing multiple 20-ish chicks show up ay my door - that's been happening for the 3+ years I've been in this location. But when I think about the flake factor, and the potential for someone I have never met showing up with a gun, knife, badge, or pimp, I just don't want to deal with it.  
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Life is good.
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The Cat

To find a system that works for you and that you are comfortable with, and run with it.  There is no question that I am more circumspect about having paid dates come to my home, so its rare for me.  But in Texas, I'm picturing you with about ten or more acres, so its doubtful the neighbors would even be able to tell its a woman coming to your house, although, if they know you, they could be certain its not a man.  Lol   I live on a bluff overlooking the Pacific Ocean, but unfortunately, that kind of real estate carries a premium for the views, and so they build even large seven and eight figure homes relatively close together.  That probably has a lot to do with my preoccupation with privacy in the P4P world.  

I always enjoy giving a different view of marriage than the one all you guys seem to think is the only and inevitable way it works.  I'm very happily married, my awesome wife and I have been together 50 years. We identify as ethically non monogamous and polyamorous.  There's zero deceit, drama or jealousy.  Last year my wife and my favorite SB became quite good friends.  To such an extent that wife said sure, bring her home if you want.  That led to me and my SB screwing in the bedroom while wife was watching TV in the next room. After SB and I wore each other out we watched some TV too!  SB stayed the night with me and in the morning traipsed around the house naked which my wife enjoyed a lot!  Later after I took SB home, wife said she really enjoyed hearing SB's loud moans with me in the bedroom.  Turned her on!  Fast forward to yesterday, this same SB and I had an amazing time in bed, then went out to one of our favorite local restaurants where my wife met us.  The three of us had a fine meal and great conversation about sex, dating, relationships, etc. So I gotta say it's not very foolish to bring a girl home, even if you're married.  You just have to create the right kind of marriage.