Although, it is true that the other piece of this is to write something thoughtful and polite, and commenting on the inevitable deluge of moronic, rude contact messages also sounds like a good play. In fact, every SB I've ever met has commented on this when I asked. They get LOTS of messages and a huge number of them are stupid, explicit, rude, or all of the above!
I don't know who all those idiot guys are, but I want to give a public thank you to them for making it easier for the rest of us. And, please, don't ever change, as you'll mess it up for the rest of us.
Seems there two schools of thought on this: (1) search by date joined and immediately jump on the hot ones before someone else gets in and contaminants the 'goods,' or before she gets burned-out by the flakes, or (2) let her become overwhelmed and/or disappointed by the flakes/scammers/salt daddies and wait a couple of weeks or more.
I'm tending more towards (2) as it's easy to monitor an SBs online activity with the presumption she wouldn't be on unless she's had success.
The hotties get set upon by the rudest idiots on the planet almost immediately.
I will usually say something like "I hope you have not been too overwhelmed by the ill mannered idiots on this site. I'd apologize for my gender, but there is no point -- they are incorrigible" or "I can only imagine the deluge of inappropriate messages a hottie like you must get "
Be nice and respectful and dont say a thing at all sexual so she sees you are just a well-mannered pervert.
Sometimes I find ones that have been online a few months but something in their profile still says "im new to this" and you can lead with, "now that you survived your first X months of SA, h ow are you finding the experience" and then just commiserate and keep it nice.
If I can get them to say Im "sweet" or "nice" within 10 messages I know I can get them to meet and at a price lower than they would normally throw out on a first offer
I have to agree that sooner is better. It's never seemed to backfire on me, although in truth they seem even more receptive when they've been exposed to a few assholes!
Data trumps theory, but "the early bird catches the worm" is always sage advice.
Nevertheless it would seem logical that someone who has been on the site for a while is either disappointed in the earlier offerings, or is searching to maintain her own rotation -- with new guys appearing and old guys disappearing.
So there would seem to be opportunity in either case.
I always look at the last 24 hours and message the ones I like and review the recently active for the past 24 hours and see if anyone fell through the cracks. I've had POT SB respond as much as a month after my initial contact. I would guess they get tons of messages and just start going down the list. I've never taken the time to examine my sent mail folder to see how long it takes them to actually read the message. Maybe I'll check it out.
Although, it is true that the other piece of this is to write something thoughtful and polite, and commenting on the inevitable deluge of moronic, rude contact messages also sounds like a good play. In fact, every SB I've ever met has commented on this when I asked. They get LOTS of messages and a huge number of them are stupid, explicit, rude, or all of the above!
I don't know who all those idiot guys are, but I want to give a public thank you to them for making it easier for the rest of us. And, please, don't ever change, as you'll mess it up for the rest of us.
I like to pounce fast. I want to beat my fellow mongers to the hole. If I can win that race I can stay in and keep her or totally wreck the girl for the rest of you guys !!
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