I am but a dabbler in the sugar world with nowhere near the experience of most of you esteemed gents on this board.  I have learned a great deal (not to mention being enormously entertained) by lurking here over the year (plus) and I value any and all viewpoints. I believe myself to be fairly savvy with at least above average instincts, but I seek the collective wisdom here on one topic: Does anyone see a red flag when a woman does not immediately ask to see private photos even though they are available? I am sure the views can bend either way on this, but might it indicate there is a chance they are pros or conceivably scammers? Most women are immediately curious what their potential "suitors" look like which is only natural, so I pause when one replies without making that request.

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I think the idea of private pics is overrated.  If the public pics don't give you enough of an idea how she looks to tickle your nads, then the private pics won't either.   I have had several open their private pics to me, and not message at the same time.  Generally doesn't get a response from me.  

But: I am not married and my public pics clearly show my face and clearly show my clothed body shape and size.  

On a side, note, I've heard way to many times from POT SB's about the guys who are essentially pic collectors who have no intention of ever meeting.  Not sure I understand given the vast amount of pics, vids, etc of naked women, including a seemingly endless supply of "candid" or "hidden cam" views.

You got the questions backwards.

I find it kind of odd actually. My profile is clear that I am looking for someone to spend time on my boat. SA wont let me put a public pic of the boat even though I am standing in front of it, go figure. So that pic is private. I get messages saying hey I want to hang on the boat but they don't ask to see my "privates" lol. Some do but the majority don't. If they have private I will request them first and then share mine to see if they share. If they don't, I un-share them in 48 hours.

I have public photos that show my body type but blur my face. If a woman does not ask to see my private photos I, too, pause.  I want them to ask for private photos. To me it is evidence that she is really "in" to the concept of sugar dating that I ascribe to...she wants an attraction to the guy she fucks.  I will either pass on her or, if I really am intrigued by her profile, will give her access to my photos