Several SB's told me they have met guys who just took off without paying after the session. They couldn't stop the guy or do anything about it. That's why they insisted on getting paid upfront. I, on the other hand, have been the victim of cash-and-dash before so that's a no-no for me. I ended up paying half before the session and half after the session with some of the SB's. Sometimes, I just put the money on the nightstand next to my side of the bed to show them I am for real. That also worked. This was for the first meet of course. Once we established the trust between us, there was no need for this kind of awkward measure anymore.

I've asked the same questions to a few. Either they get to the M&G and the guy asks for a free sample and she bails. Or the amount promised is $5000/month and they sweet talk them into a  freebie and disappear.

There's a whole book on Amazon about how to run the scam. I read it on Kindle although I don't practice it.

I've seen comments that guys ask for bank account numbers and instead of depositing money find a ay to extract stuff.. not entirely sure how this works.  There are also some types of online payments that can be reversed, or transfers that can look real but are blocked for insufficient funds. Not an expert on this however

The two most common, and most damaging to them I might add, are the "give me your bank account info so I can deposit money for you" which ends up with someone in Nigeria cleaning out her bank account, and the other, even worse scam that is run on all sorts of "marks" not just SB's which is the "fake cashiers check" where the fake SD sends her a fake cashiers check for a rather large sum, usually well into the thousands, with the instructions for the SB to keep a couple of grand for herself and to send the rest of the money either back to him or some other entity that he controls. It takes weeks sometimes for the bank to realize the CC is fake at which time they will demand full payment from her for ALL the money under the threat of actual prison time if she can't repay the stolen money.

 
The typical POT has these scams attempted on them almost as often as the POT SD's have the usual "send me gas money" or any of the other mulitude of scams run on them.  

 
To anyone that cares, yes I am alive and well, but a bit bored with TER of late. It just seems to get dumber and dumber on the various TER boards with each passing day. This board excepted of course. lol

Except the “good” is a pussy

It's hard for me to believe young SB's these days don't know Venmo, CashApp, Paypal, or Zelle. I remember near the end of my Sugar Bowl days in 2019, I only used online cash apps to pay. It's also much safer for me not to have cash on me. Why would anyone give out their bank account info? I guess we don't pay for their brains.

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Speaking of cash apps, this reminds me of a dumb mistake I made once. After our session, my 18-year-old hottie wanted me to order groceries online in lieu of cash. Since I was too lazy to download the grocery shopping app on my phone, I just ordered the groceries on her phone. We had met regularly for more than 6 months so I kind of trusted her (big mistake, never let down your guard with SB's). The next day, I found out she had ordered another $300 worth of groceries. I quickly called customer service and told them someone stole my card and this was a fraud. They canceled both orders so I actually got a freebie from her. From that point on, I download any app that an SB wants to use for cash or other transaction and do it on my phone.

I never use them, they give me the creeps!  When a girl asks me to pay via a cash app, it immediately raises my red flags. The times I've tried have been the times I've been scammed, 100%.  Cash and dash is bad enough, but the apps don't work for me. When asked, I tell the girl I only give sugar the old fashioned way, in cash and in person. If that doesn't work for her I think I've dodged a bullet.

I've used cashapps for gifts.  I presume any advance will be met with ghosting.  I don't think SB's can resist the temptation to disappear when they get an advance.  It seems to be wired into their girlish brains.