We have had much discussion on how far an SD should/could drive to go to a M&G or a BCD date. Good examples from each end of the spectrum can be found by comparing Sweetman's (Papa Sweet!) reality to mine.  

Long drive: Papa Sweet lives in a relatively remote area and has very few local POT's to choose from. As a result, and thanks to his genius investment in an RV, he can, and often has to, drive up to 100+ miles to get some face time with his POT's and SB's. Having the RV available acts as an interesting novelty to the SB and provides the ultimate mobile BCD location.  He has literally parked that thing in a supermarket parking lot and blissfully consumed the pleasures of the flesh as soccer moms and little old grannies walked by.  

 
Short drive: OTOH, I work hard to drive as few miles as possible. Living the Valley north of Los Angeles, I have, without exaggeration, tens of thousands of active POT profiles within a 25-mile radius.  And although I decided to never drive more than 30 minutes (which can be as little as 10 miles in some parts of LA), I actually work hard to never drive at all, after my mandatory M&G in public. My objective is to have my SB's delivered to my doorstep Doordash-style.  

 
Most of the SD's here probably fall somewhere in the middle, based on a variety of factors like SO status, travel for other needs, security, budget, etc.    

 
Now having said all that - this post has nothing to do with the info above.  :p Instead, I want to flip the question to:  

 
How far will your POT SB or current SB drive/ride/travel to see you?  

 
Four years ago, I had an Asian SB (maybe a 6-7 in looks) who lived at least 60 miles east of me and she did not have a car. I told her I would never drive to her.  But she really wanted see me every 2-3 weeks. She told me she would Uber to me at her cost. And even so I lowballed her allowance at $200. She agreed. Now that uber ride to / from my house must have cost her $120+ round trip.  So I presume she could not find a local SD. Or at least no SD who would offer more than an $80 to $100 allowance.  The sex was pretty good. She loved BB and swallowing. But I got bored with her and we drifted apart.  

 
In the last 3 years, all of my SB's have driven to my home to meet with me. The only exception was an SB who lived less than 3 miles from me.  And half the time I sent an Uber for her as well.  

 
So what are your experiences? Do you always meet her at her place? Do you ask her to meet you half way? Do you pay for her to Uber to you or your meeting place?  

 
How does HER travel dynamics affect your arrangement?  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Hey Cat, I am an even more extreme example of "short" distance than you. I live in Manhattan, NYC with probably the highest population density in the country. First week in the bowl, I can see 6+ likely M&G within a 15 minute walk or subway ride away, at least double that if I expanded out to 30 minute train ride. My problem is finding time and/or figuring out which ones to take or pass on.

Herb is correct, I live 50 miles from the city containing the SBs around here, so I consider driving 100 miles round trip to just be part of the routine.  So I am truly amazed when one of them offers to drive to my house for a date!  During covid I had one stunning young beauty who drove to visit me every time.  And now I have a very sexy 24yo in the city who I see regularly.  We alternate:  one visit I drive to her apartment, the next time she drives to my house. My other established regular is also in the city and I drive the RV 50 miles each way to see her.  

The last 2 new SBs I dated turned out to be right here in my small town!  So meeting them (in the RV) was barely a 10 minute drive.  However, one new one I'm chatting up and texting lives 70 miles away in the opposite direction, in a town even smaller than mine.  Its an easy drive on the interstate, but still, a solid hour plus of driving each way.  When I asked her about the distance and how far apart we are, she said she'd drive to see me!  It hasn't happened yet, but I'll be one very happy camper if it does.  She's a stunning slim young blonde, actually a 10 from her pics.  And I have no doubt there are few if any, suitable SDs in her location that meet her standards. So I may be her best option, even if she has t drive an hour each way.

Every time one of these out of town girls agrees to drive to see me I am just amazed.  I can hardly believe it: top quality pussy, delivered right to my doorstep.

I have a regular rotation now and they all come to my place. The furthest one travels about 100 miles. I see her once a month because of the distance. The rest are 15-30 miles away.  All, but one, have their own vehicles.  The one that doesn’t, I pay for her Uber/Lyft to see me. She lives about 20 miles away.

In the past, I traveled 100 miles to regularly see a hot 18 year old at a hotel in her hometown because she didn’t have a reliable car that she trusted to drive very far. The arrangement ended when she went away to college.  I also met with a 20 year old college student who went to a major university 140 miles away. We split the difference and met at a hotel half way. Eventually, it got a bit much for both of us and the arrangement ended.  

I live in a large, but spread out, metropolitan area.