Need advice gents. Went to lunch with a charming POT. Prior we had agreed on a ppm so it was really a get to know you. In her bio she said there had to be chemistry/connection. My kinda gal. We hit it off wonderfully. We are getting together in about 10 days after I get back from a NYC trip with my #1 SB. What's interesting is I had been perusing a provider site and had bookmarked a lovely provider that I thought I would get together with if I needed a break from sugaring. I happened to look at her ad today and discovered it is the same gal as the POT I had lunch with. I know this for sure not because of the similar looks but she also has unique one of a kind Tatts and they match the pics on her ad perfectly. So it is her. I do not have a problem with SBs as providers, I mean from a moral point of view. She did not give off any vibe other than a typical SB. We learned a lot about each other and when we meet she will come over for dinner and then BCD. Interestingly the agreed ppm is the same as her 1 hour rate though she will be with me all evening.
My question is: should I bring this up to her, I mean that I saw her ad? Honestly it's kinda hot thinking about her not being just a civilian with potential hangups. Though I've been with enough providers that many have rules too. She just didn't give off that vibe at all.
She's on a sugar site to sugar. Her "job" is generally irrelevant to her arrangements.
Next, trust me, you are much better off with sugar dates with her than booked hours.
If she brings it up, then sure, you can let her know you saw her ad. But you respect her decision to keep some separation between her private relationships and her professional work, and you don't expect it to be an issue.
If you bring it up first, you can come off as judgmental, creepy, or worse. Let her decide if and when to tell you. Until then, just enjoy your dates.
You are presumably sugaring because you do not want to be treated like a john. She is presumably sugaring because she does not want to be treated like hooker.
If you want her to be exclusive to you then you are replacing her pro income. Plain and simple. If you are expecting a SB not to have sex with anyone else you need to clarify it early on. I'm pretty clear at the beginning I don't like girls who sleep around. I also expect current tests. No condoms. So this is for my safety. Not to mention less drama if she has a boyfriend.
Now, I've seen porn stars and other girls that are not exclusive. I've either used a condom or we had clean tests, showing each other, right before. But that was a different expectation on my end.
I keep sugar and escorts apart. If I'm taking her to dinner and having a few rounds of bare sex I am not shocked it costs more. And, after we are established, I don't mind signing a lease for her. She gets free rent. I get laid several times a month. So, if you are wanting something exclusive you are going to have to pay for it.
Or just have fun with her and move on if it bothers you.
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