The Erotic Highway

Have you actually been outed?
herbtcat 6 Reviews 850 reads
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There's some good recent discussion going on about the the best practices for staying anonymous on the site:  
- No pics
- Blurred face pics
- Paying with a cash-based gift card
- Never giving an SB your real name, address, etc.
- Using cash or quasi-cash to pay allowance
- Reserving/paying for a hotel room with cash or gift cards

 
None of these are necessary for me as I am single, no kids, retired, and my friends are used to seeing me date younger women. So the worst that could happen to me is that my friends will see their suspicions confirmed that I am actually sugaring, and not just good at picking up 20-ish hotties. :p  

 
But I do understand that I am not typical here, though I do stand with a few notable gents like GaGa and Sweetman.  And for those of you who twist your life through all kinds of contortions to keep your sugar life a secret from your SO and friends - and perhaps your "real" life secret from your SB's - two simple questions:  

 
1, Have you ever been outed by SB?  
2. Have you ever been caught by your SO/friends when one of your security measures failed to work?  

 
Tell us what and how it happened, please. And what was the result?  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

However, other than getting the usual extortion threats, no one I know ever saw my name, or at least, ever told me they saw my name.
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So regardless of your own security measures, you can get outed with a site hack where they steal all your subscription info.

AnotherDonJohn112 reads

I’ve been living with being married to a well known PS (one word name, hall of famed) for nearly a decade and a half. So I’ve little fear of being outed overall.  

I would like my life not to be the topic of discussion at the water cooler so to speak. So I take small precautions like keeping my real photos in the private section. I don’t talk about my “other life” with civvies. And my spouse retired from porn awhile ago pretty much when we got serious as a couple. I have paid to hide her identity from her porn alter ago and she plays the soccer mom role pretty well at times.  

Once a political enemy tried to spread the rumor that I was a pimp probably based on seeing me with a bevy of PS like girls. But it didnt really spread ... maybe because I don’t acknowledge or flaunt my lifestyle.

I had an Asian American SB who was an actress. We were together for a couple of years but I had to end it when she used my real name to try to get a part. Producer called me to complain and I apologized. Had it out with her and wound up breaking up, which is a shame because she was dynamite BCD.

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