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The Erotic Highway

Going Back To the Well
sweetman 93 Reviews 745 reads
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Herb mentioned the tactic of returning to your list of previous SBs and seeing if there's any way to rekindle those arrangements.  It can be especially helpful if you are currently in a dry spell with new SBs.  And any previous ones presumably are SBs you know whether to trust or not, super important with the covid threat.

So I was really glad my previous #1 SB asked to see me again this afternoon.  She was just 19 when we started our arrangement, a real little blonde lolita girly,  all of 21 now.  But she had plans to move away and live with her bf in another state, and I knew our arrangement had an expiration date.  

So I was really surprised when she told me a couple weeks ago that she broke up with the bf and was staying put and would love to see me if I still wanted to.  Heck yes!  We had a lovely 3 hour reunion today including some BCD activities plus lots of fun conversations over lunch.  I'm so happy to have her back in my life when I thought she'd be gone.

My #2 SB from last year has also contacted me this week asking to get together again!  We've been in touch, making sure we both felt safe, got tested, etc.  So I plan to see her again soon.  She's 22, tall slim, blonde and model pretty.

Then there's #3 from last year!  When the pandemic hit she made a point of coming to see me to to say she was moving several states away to live on a remote farm with a gf of hers.  She wanted to tell me face to face and not just ghost me or send an impersonal text.  Very classy I thought.  And she promised she'd be back.  Well last week she texted me, complete with a sexy pic, saying she'd be back here in a week or two!  I plan to reconnect with her when she returns.  

This is so odd and unexpected.  I had completely stopped sugaring for months, now I have my new Unicorn plus 3 returnees.  Life sure is a funny old thing sometimes.  Anyway, you might just want to dust off your list of old arrangements and give them a call if pickings are slim.  You never know, some of them might be truly eager to see you again and pick up where you left off.

herbtcat129 reads

I just decided to start calling you "Papy", since you are becoming the Grand Daddy on the boards!  :)  
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This is the kind of story that proves that patience and kindness is always a winning strategy in the Sugar Bowl.  Let's face it, this game is cyclical - unless you are Gaga (who I am convinced keeps a month's supply of ready-to-activate SB's stacked in his closet, "West World" style! :p.  
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My Pinay unicorn is stuck in the Philippines. My 4'11", 97 lbs. AA spinner is stuck in NY. My AA 5'1" former porn star stripper SB is stuck in AZ. But I'm still keeping my rotation full and filling in any gaps with some wonderful KGirl meets.  
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Plus I have another local stripper trying to retire and become a real estate estate agent who, once COVID closed the clubs in LA, offered to see me once a month at my place for a 3 hour private lap dance w/happy ending for $200, plus sushi.  
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I'm doing so well, I actually deactivated my SA profile 2 weeks ago. I'll probably turn it back on later this month... but still.  
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So great stuff, Papy! You're stories prove that...
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Life is good.
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The Cat

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sweetman100 reads

Maybe I deserve the Grand Daddy label.  I'm 55 years older than my recent Unicorn SB.  Sounds like you are well on your way to having a girl in every port. I hope they all return to you one day!  Sounds like you're doing fine in the meantime though.  Patience and kindness really are a winning strategy. It creates a sweet feeling to the arrangement and  It keeps them coming back for more, sometimes even after a long absence.  This morning I saw a "new" profile pop up in my area; a SB I dated 5 times BCD two years ago is back on SA with a new profile. So of course I messaged her and said how wonderful it was to see her on SA again and hope she's doing well, etc.  Who knows, I might have yet another returnee SB!

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ShockBoogie111 reads

Great advice!

An exit strategy from a sugar relationship should always be done in a manner that leaves open the possibility of getting her BCD's again.  I've succeeded and failed.  

The obvious thing is to treat the SB with respect, show her a phenomenal time both in and out of the bedroom and fulfill all (many) of the reasons she became an SB.

One other key is to obtain reliable contact info.  Like her real email or cell phone number instead of the pseudo accounts we all use.  Learned this from a previous SB who I reached out too, because, well....she was a great fuck.  Didn't hear back for 3 months when she returned my email and let me know that she moved to Miami, got off SA, and therefore didn't use that email addy.  "Would have been great to see you, share sushi and a bottle of your great wine.  Come visit me in Miami.  Here is my cell phone so that we can stay in touch".

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