I am a newbie & haven't been to my first provider yet- but as I have gotton older- anal fantasies have gotton much stronger- do most or some providers entertain having anal lingus performed on them? (IMO, it's against the laws of nature to have it reversed)Anyway, And if so, how do you recomend aproaching the subject?
Any other thoughts on the subject greatly appreciated
Dear assman247, "Anal lingus" or actually, "anilingus" is definitely on the menu of some providers - you just have to pick and choose carefully. Read the reviews; chances are that if the provider lists "anal sex" on her menu, a tongue may also be allowed to go in there. But - she may insist that you put a cover or a dental dam inbetween your lingua and her rectum. If so, you will have to abide by her rules.
I'd recommend approaching the subject after you have been screened or appropriately vetted [by the provider you've chosen who lists anal sex among her services, natch.] Do NOT discuss any of this in emails or on the phone, as many providers, anal-lovers or not, may be seriously put off and concerned about their security. But in person, yes, please make your request known.
You should probably approach the subject with as much candor and naturalness as possible. Tell the provider that you really would enjoy some anilingus and then listen for your response. Providers with a few pages of good reviews are seasoned professionals and won't mind. This is their business, and they've heard and seen it all.
Enjoy your lingual trip down the Hershey highway [sorry, I just loooove saying that, it's so scatologically funny!]
One of my ATF providers --a very sensual African American lady-- had a bit of trouble having an organism except with me doing anillingus. The first time I saw her, we really hit if off and I soon made it clear I was up for anything. After a prolonged DATY, she shifted herself and put herself over me in such a way that it was clear what she wanted. I began to comply and she got more and more excited. She had multiple organisms marked by vigorous "anal wink" responses. She kept me there much past the alloted time then asked if I had any extra money since she wanted to invite her sister" to join us. I really didn't have anything but a few dollars. She called her "sister" anyway and we three spent much time, me providing the service to one then the other. About a year later, I moved to a city nearer her for a few years for professional reasons. We saw each other quite regularly. Occasionally I saw her "sister". They each always wanted the same thing. Sometimes she would insist on this when I preferred one of her great BBJTC. We would often compromise and do hers, then BBJTC, then hers then hers. She would always make me O when doing her thing as often as I could though Iwould run out of steam before she would. I have found that most ladies, particularly the mature ones, enjoy anillingus if you are clean and approach things properly. Enjoy.
Also check the providers review profile for a 'Yes' under 'Rimming'. However, as seen in a very recent debate on both the General and Newbie discusssion boards, there may not be a clear concensus on whether or not the 'yes' indicates giving, receiving or either in regard to this particular activity.
just because a provider engages in rimming, doesn't necessarily mean that she likes to receive, or likes it both ways. i am one of those who will perform the act on certain gents, but have receiving it as a limit. so even after checking a provider's reviews, a frank discussion of the topic (in person) is still a good idea before diving head first, so to speak.
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