The porn girl ghosted me... and I have no idea why...  The last message I got from her was over a week ago "Last night was unreal, and I can't wait to do it again"  and no attempts to reschedule have been responded to since.  I wish I knew what to take away from this, she was super into the sex on a physiological level... it wouldn't be so much simpler if people would just say what the problem is, lack of closure drives me nuts.

IMO the chances of finding a lady on SA that isn't BSC to some degree or the other is slim. Throw on bi polar ladies, financial trainwrecks and hookers into the mix and it is best to never be surprised.

I'd have a shit load of fucking nickles.

LEM, I am not surprised in the least because I maintain that money/allowance or whichever you wish to put it, is one of the fundamental motivators in SugarVille. I also understand that you are (or wish to) play with a more limited budget but you bring other factors into the foray, ostensibly fun companionship and great sex. So why not look at the positive side that with limited dispensable "investment" you still have managed to get some relatively inexpensive p*ssy on SA?  

That would be fine... if it weren't for her last text which was completely uncalled for if she had no intention to see me again.  I don't have any problem understanding the finance portion of this, and would even be fine with her telling me she has better offers this week and would see me when she doesn't.

About 3 weeks ago I met a new POT SB. At the end of the date, I told her that I was offering 1K-1.5K per month in 2-3 allotments whence we meet. She had indicated to me that she was most def interested in my style of making it seem like a real date with overnight stays, etc...

Ckassic. Just like vegas biatches. Maybe. Just  maybe. These young girls don't want to fuck old guys! Lol

She claimed to be 31 and looked to be in her 30's. I went against my own cardinal rule but the damage was only about $60 for some wine and appetizers plus like $20 for her Uber ride to the wine bar. Good news being that I lived  for another day to tell this tale. My explanation? I was not her type so she lied tin order to keep the peace and also to get me to give her a ride back. No big deal!

Still too uoung. Just sayin. The long term SB model  wont work  lol.

I've had a few recently who ghosted after we'd had a really great arrangement going and what I thought was a good connection.And in both cases they sent me messages saying they really wanted to see me again, didn't want the separation to be permanent, etc.  But then radio silence and no closure.  Drives me nuts!  Good thing I'm normally nuts, so no big deal.

One thing that is needed in the Sugar World is tolerance for ambiguity.  These women don't reply or are slow to reply or they say something vague.  Get used to it.  It's the norm.  As long as you have options, losing one or two is not a big deal.  I recommend seeing a pro if you can't find a SB you like in the short run.

Several times, I just "wasn't feeling it" in the looks department, but they weren't so hideous that I found myself running away screaming in terror. lol I have gone through the dates, made small talk along with the "best of the situation" and then simply done just like the SB's and ghosted on them.

I Agree completely, and have already made an appt with my local atf ter girl! We'll ring in the new year with a bang!  And I'm also setting up dates with a few new SBs. So multiple options is truly the only way to go. Tolerating ambiguity is a challenge for me though, which I'm trying to deal with by keeping the pipeline flowing!

I'm sure that a lot of SB's have been ghosted as well, by guys like us who have lost interest and find it easier to just disappear.  Guilty as charged.

It's super frustrating when they ghost for no reason, but all I can say is keep the lines of communication open for her and you never know when she might pop back up. Even if she says she doesn't want your money, I would not believe that. The other thing you can do if you REALLY want to see her again is sweeten the pot a bit for her and then she may come back. Just remember, she's in it for the money even she if she says she's not.

She resurfaced a couple of months later and confessed she had thought about leaving her long time BF/fiancé to find an SD as he had been pressuring her to marry him, but that he had eased up and she had decided to give him another chance which is why she ghosted on me.

Simply put I was injecting some anecdotal tales in the thread to soothe some of LEM's sufferings