That's my reference to the movie Almost Famous as I am now talking to an ex band aid of Ace Frehely from KISS. She I guess was his fiancee for 11 years until she wasn't. Somehow she landed in my town and I found her on the SB site. Obviously I didn't know this about her until we started chatting. In her 50's, looks pretty good for her age. She wants a "gentleman to show her a good time and travel with her" based on her profile. I had to read the back story because I didn't know about her background once she spewed everything out to me via text. It was an ugly break up as you might imagine. Now she is couch surfing and is asking for 2 grand to get back on her feet. I wish I hadn't started talking to her as she won't stop texting and what's sad is she is acting like one of those desperate POTS who need the rent paid. Those type of arrangements never end well. So I just wanted to share this for fun as all the sugar babes I've encountered over the years have been regular vanilla civilian types with no celebrity backgrounds. Now I've got to figure out how to end the texting as I don't like ghosting. Thank heavens I didn't sign up for a M&G before I knew this!
Ugly break up is a euphemistic way of describing what happened. This is one you should definitely ghost. Nobody really likes to ghost a SB but sometimes it is appropriate.
I've always advocated for the "never burn bridges" concept. That means always be nice. Firm, but nice. You never know what may happen down the road, or what may trigger her psycho mode today.
Just be careful of the POT's who mistake niceness for weakness. You can tell her "no" without the need for insults, anger, or apologies. I only block someone when she starts to be abusive or aggressively intrusive. I respect assertiveness, but there's a difference, and boundaries work both ways.
I agree with you totally Herbcat. I am firm with them, especially POTS, and ascribe different expectations to the mosaic of life, no judgment. She has to go through whatever journey she was destined to go through and I have no connection to that. Of course she had to slightly admonish me for not knowing what a sugar daddy really is (that was funny), but I've found that behavior to be a SB rejection archetype. I just believe in treating everyone with dignity and respect even though they may not appear to deserve it. Anyway it's all done. She ended the conversation with "Caio!"
I had one of those just 2 days ago . She was abusive, angry, insulting, all of that, when I declined to meet her demands. Very depressing. But I kept my cool and was nothing but kind and gentlemanly. Even though part of me wanted to tear her a new one! But that never ends well. So I wished her good luck and signed off.
I've run into quite a few of these on SA. In my initial phone call the attitude shows up rather quickly. I resist the temptation to voice my opinion of her poor disposition and I end the call diplomatically. It makes little sense to me why they are on a site designed to help men find women to give them positive attention and affection in exchange for financial and emotional support. It seems some women are on there just to be angry and resentful toward men. The more attractive the profile photo the higher the bad attitude quotient, it seems.
The same might be true for some of the men, though. I've heard quite a few stories from SB's about men on SA who are disrespectful, angry and bitter toward women. Online dating is a cesspool. It seems to bring out the best and worst of humanity.
This is why we must value and nurture the good people we meet in our journey, never taking them for granted.
Some men who are dicks to women believe they can use sugar dating as a shortcut to access young, hot women. Okay, well, that applies to all of us! However, money doesn't always ensure success if they continue to be dicks. Manners still matter to women of substance.
Unfortunately it looks like your attempt to purchase VIP membership has failed due to your card being declined. Good news is that we have several other payment options that you could try.
VIP MEMBER
, you are now a VIP member!
We thank you for your purchase!
VIP MEMBER
, Thank you for becoming VIP member!
Membership should be activated shortly. You'll receive notification!
