A friend of mine who has one wants six kids. She only has one now.  She is 35, so the clock is ticking and I don't think we could get to six. She might weigh in given that she is on TER too.

She wouldn't let me go into here bare this time (she is on BC so it probably wouldn't have worked anyway), but she definitely got my attention. I am too probably old for new kids, but I am tempted.

18 years at about $10,000/year of cost to raise a kid, then another $250,000 to get them through college.

 
What are you waiting for?

We are adults here seeking to exchange views and info about the Sugar World.
What works for you may not be my cup of tea and vice versa...so why not show some respect for various interests and FORGET all the NEGATIVITY ?
Problems Represent Opportunities !
Happy Hunting 😋

A few years ago I met a beautiful mid 30's woman who was never married, but was engaged and single after the breakup after the man hit her.  She is from Europe and after the first time BCD I noticed a pregnancy test on the sink in the bathroom.  We clicked on so many levels and could see her seriously, but knew she wanted a child and I didn't want another.  Fast forward - she recently reached out and told me she just had a baby by a man in his sixties with grown children.  They met on SA.  Obviously he will be on the financial hook for a long time.

Moral of the story - little head never thinks, but if you know the game mine does!

this is a worthy cautionary tale.  I always assume no single woman engaged in sugar Dating would ever want to get pregnant, but that's a stupid assumption to make, obviously.  Use condoms guys, every time!  I don't know which would be worse, getting some dreadful disease or fathering an unwanted (by me) child.