Been seeing a gorgeous tall white Brazilian.  Single mom.  Great in bed. Great kisser. The only thing I don't like is she's a one and done lady. Says she gets too sensitive when she cums for anymore play. I proposed we have a date with playtime.  Then a casual meal and then back to my place for round 2. Thuis would give her recharge time.  She agreed and said ok.  She comes over looking great in a miniskirt and matching bra and panties.  Have some fun with multiple positions and a great bbbj. I didn't do all I wanted as I wanted to save some stuff for round 2.  We have a nice meal with great conversation then back to my place.  She goes into the bathroom to pee then I piss. When I come out she is getting her stuff ready to go. I ask what's up and she says her son is texting her to come home (he's 10 but there's an adult roommate home) and I say surely she can stay for another 15 to 30 minutes.  She said sorry but she gad to go. On one hand we had fun in private and had a nice dinner. OTOH, she blew off our agreed upon date.  She also quickly mentioned how much time we'd been together already. Gave me a real clockwatcher vibe.  Not sure if I want to continue with a one round lady, no matter how hot she is. Her PPM is 400. Great considering her looks and body but the clockwatcher vibe is concerning.

One thing to remember is that SB's aren't hookers. Although it's okay to try to arrange for a double pop it isn't realistic to expect it. These SR's are more like regular relationships but with the added dynamic of sugar, and that works both ways. Life stuff happens and sometimes she has to go and take care of things. Same for you. If it becomes a habit [her leaving before round 2] I'd have a discussion with her but if I was you I'd let it go. There will be other opportunities down the road for a double pop, to expect it of her would be to treat her like an escort, and if she gets that vibe from you she may take her leave permanently. Personally, I'm a one and done guy so it's easy to give advice, but it would seem to me if multiple pops is essential for you and she isn't able to accommodate after discussing it then perhaps it's time for a replacement. But if she's hot and delivering a quality experience I'd stick with it.

I tend to agree with bdrm. And I'll add a couple more points to consider.  

 
Dating single mothers will always be problematic. Her kids will ALWAYS take priority. And I don't think you'd be vibing with a woman who did not make her young child her #1 priority.  Now kids, especially younger ones, can be unpredictable. Unless you think she was using the brat as an excuse and there was no problem at home, you might want to grant a little grace here.    

 
Now it's possible she was actually playing you and she really doesn't want to do double-plays for some reason. Maybe she's not really a two-pop girl and just wasn't into another round that day. Like bdrm, I am also a one-and-done guy, so why can't a SB be one as well?  Or maybe, she's internally closer to the 'ho side than she lets on and she thinks her current allowance is only enough for one ride per date. She may be leery of telling you that, fearing you will break it off.    

 
But as my post title suggests, one event is not a trend. I think you might want to reiterate your desire for a double-dip and see what happens. If she agrees at first, then pulls the "gotta go" bit, you will know what to do.  If instead, she tells you she will be more comfortable with an extra $ or $$ allowance, you can make a value-based decision. But if she agrees, shows up, and gets down and down again, then...

 

Life is good

 
The Cat

I know she can go twice. When I first met her, a buddy of mine also started chatting with her. A few months ago she set a date with me at 5 and a date with him at 6:15.  So the escort vibe is strong and she certainly can do 2 pops. She also said when me met that Greek was available after the first date. After 5 dates I asked about that. No. She doesn't do that. Like a lot of these ladies,  she is very comfortable with not being honest. Comes with the territory.

Time to make that value-based decision.  Worth it to continue with somewhat restricted boundaries? Or time to reinvest your resources (money and time) into a potentially better opportunity?  

 
In other words, what is the opportunity cost loss from keeping this arrangement as is?  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I remember you mentioning her in the past.  I really think she's figured out her minimum effort for allowance with you.  If you change your want you may have to up the allowance.  For example, I had a SB that wanted $800 a date.  In return, I said it has to be a full day, several rounds of sex along with time out and about.  She agreed.  Then she never had time for it, so value.

Funny you said that. I asked her if the per meet amount we agreed to meant only one round and if multiple rounds would be available for a higher fee.  No response yet.  She's kind of boxed in on that because she's been telling me all along that she gets too sensitive after she has an O.

I finally got a clear answer from her. Her super sensitive pussy that can't handle two rounds is miraculously cured with another C note in her purse. Greek which was offered originally but then denied because it hurts too much? (Ithought that  was odd because it looked like her anus had been bleached)  That is suddenly avaliable for another 100 as well. So that gray line between SB and hooker is now quite clear.  Only she's the the type of hooker I never booked. Ala carte menu.

Makes it easy for you then.  Is she just someone you want to fuck till you are bored or are you already bored?  It's not sugar dating if you aren't really dating.  If she really just wants to be a low volume provider with only a few regulars are you ok with that?

If she's also letting you go raw then she's still slightly different than an "off the shelf" provider.  

 
And if you are scheduling recurring dates, rather than booking as desired, that's a bit different as well.  

 
Still, any non-BCD "magic" appears to be gone.  

 
Maybe the a la cate is a good thing, since you can now control your date costs based on your sexual appetites when you "order" your meal.  

 
"Hello, symp my lover. Can I get you the full spread for dinner today, Babe?"  

 
"Naw, I'm just here for a BJ with swallow, please...then I'm off to poker with the guys."  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

I'll see her a few times then stop once I lose interest.  My thoughts about her have shifted quite a bit. She is very good a lieing  so I know I can't trust her. An UTR escort us cool but that's not really what I want.

My question is how many guys is she letting go raw?  She's a very good liar so her answers are treated with a lot of skepticism.  
The order what Im interested in could be interesting....Hey babe.  I just want to cmblow a load in your mouth.  In and out in 20 minutes. When can you be here?

Turns out she is! A hooker