The Erotic Highway

SB got knocked up by her BF
AsianManNOVA 580 reads
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1 / 4

She is due at the end of September. She texted me yesterday asking me if I would see a seven-month pregnant woman because she is broke. Obviously, the father is not offering any financial help. He probably asked her to get an abortion and she didn't want to. She doesn't have a full-time job. The rent is getting too expensive for her so she needs to find a new place next month. I asked her if she has considered giving up the baby for adoption. She said no and that she already loves her baby before he is even born. I have no idea how she is going to manage. She said she will find a way just like all the other single moms. I really hate to tell her that she is being selfish. What about the well-being of the baby? Doesn't he deserve a nice family that can take care of him and gives him a much better future than being raised by a single mom that has no financial stability and can't even take care of herself? Millions of couples would adopt a white baby boy in a NY second. I am thinking about just giving her a PPM allowance as a gift for the baby.

sweetman 93 Reviews 42 reads
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2 / 4

...when hormones are involved.   She's not being logical or reasonable.  But then, if all young moms-to-be were more thoughtful, the human race would probably die out.  She's designed by nature to want to keep the baby, against all odds.  And we, as men who are natural caretakers, are automatically inclined to help.  Just be careful you don't get caught up in "White Knight Syndrome"!  We want to be their savior, but all too often that ends in disaster, both emotional and financial.  I'd say go ahead and give her a small gift, then cut your losses and move on.

am2014 42 Reviews 40 reads
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3 / 4

Best reply sweetman

If logic drive all decisions humans would be extinct lol. But y agree on not becoming the white knight  
Depending on what state she is in it could be ok or bad re child support etc

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 34 reads
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4 / 4

I agree she has a tough future ahead of her.  But I can't fault a mother who fights for her kiddie.
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Now as for you, man you gotta cut your losses.  She's going to be crying to you at every turn.  Money money money.
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Hate to be cold hearted, but you gotta run.

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