The Erotic Highway
Feast or famine
The Cat
Thank you all for the encouragement. Despite my griping, I'm not about to delete my SD profile. 
The SB sirens always manage to entice me back onto the rocks of sugar dating.
I cant tell you how many times I think Km flaming out with SBs and a week later Im turning them away. Id suggest you concentrate yor efforts around the end if thd month and beginning of a when rent is due.
I really like what sugar dating has to offer. I like the idea of finding someone with a brain and building a deeper than "Wham bam, thank you Ma'am" connection. I like the idea of getting to know one another. As sentient beings, and as sexual animals. I really like the idea of (rare, discreet) fun little dates and confounding civilians when I am seen with a smokeshow in public.
But, it's SOOOO much work. I don't have time to interview SBs. And, I don't have the patience for scammers or SBs with outrageous expectations. And, I have less faith that a non-professional can be discreet forever with my information. I would love to live the life. But, don't have the time or energy (or, possibly budget) to maintain it (well).
In short, I'm jealous. I'll continue to live vicariously through this forum and your respective adventures. Thank you.
I feel the pain. I've been feeling it since I started my sugar dating journey in 2010. And like everything else in life, over time sugar dating is subject to "painflation" as the struggle gets harder and harder.
For me, the ROI is still net positive. And while I still book the occasional escort and bang the occasional stripper (in the club or outside), the satisfaction I get from a sugar date (beyond the obvious) is an order of magnitude higher than what I get from other P4P sources.
The good news here is that you can tailor the amount of effort and cash you need to invest by managing (lowering) your expected returns. Some of us here juggle multiple SB's (a "rotation") and some don't. Some want to go BCD (almost) every day, and some are happy with once a week, or even less.
Some, like you, bail from the game for extended periods, then return when they get the itch. Many of these gents keep in touch with past SB's and can generally reach out to them for a one-off. That helps reduce (but not eliminate) risks of scammers and wasted time.
But I get it. It's still your time, your cash, and your dick. Use them in a way that works for you. For me....
Life is good
The Cat
It can be a pain. You get comfortable and then she gets too comfortable. Just remember, your goal is to find hot young women to spend time with you and make your life more exciting. If that's your focus the numbers are just a filter.
I just started a related thread about how few/many SBs there are in different locations. Mine is an extremely target poor area. Plus, at 78, I am beyond the age that many otherwise sexually active young women would consider. And yet, I'm doing quite well. My #1 SB is a slim beauty, 25yo, who I've been seeing every other week for 1 1/2 years so far. #2 is a gorgeous 28yo I met back in 2021 who I've been seeing off and on since then. Rn we are on, and she's coming to visit me tomorrow! And #3 is a petite 25yo latina I met when she was just 18 and who breezes in and out of my orbit as the muse takes her. We had a fantastic session last week. So I'm a lucky guy and I know it.
But it takes work, that's for sure. I spend more time on SA than I'd care to admit: Certainly every day, usually more than once. I am constantly searching for the Next Good Thing, exchanging messages with potentials, screening out the constant flow of messages and likes I receive from distant locations, blocking the obvious scammers, etc. I guess I'm just lucky that I have the time and energy for it, and I actually enjoy perving over the possibilities! And when you strike gold, all the effort pays off!
I concur with my fellow brothers on here that it does take a lot of work. I've been able to maintain a nice rotation that keeps me quite busy. My frustrations are the same ones many of us on here face. Firstly, there is a quality issue. I am always trying to find 8's, 9's and 10's and those are so far and few between that much of the time they are non-existent for me. Most POTS I reach out to don't reply and the ones that do often ghost or flake before we ever get to first or second base.
Secondly, the unreliability of some of these gals boggles the mind. The entire thing seems built on a house of cards. But then, aren't many things in life? Nothing is stable, really.
Still, I do manage to find decent SB's and some are quite attractive and really enhance a life worth living. I consider myself fortunate as hell to be in my senior years and be able to have satisfying sexual relationships with women half my age. But it does take a great deal of work and patience - along with considerable disappointment and frustration. Sometimes I'll get right up to the day of the BCD with a near perfect POT and she bails... other times it's a score and I'm a happy man.
While I do understand OP's decision to admire the lifestyle from afar because of the frustration and work, for myself I choose to endure the challenges and hardships in order to reap the benefits.
As Herbcat has pointed out, taking a break from it is sometimes a good idea.
Thank you all for the encouragement. Despite my griping, I'm not about to delete my SD profile. The SB sirens always manage to entice me back onto the rocks of sugar dating.
I cant tell you how many times I think Km flaming out with SBs and a week later Im turning them away. Id suggest you concentrate yor efforts around the end if thd month and beginning of a when rent is due.
I find that as well, Symp! It goes in boom/bust cycles [not always end of month] and when it rains it pours. I also find that it will often LOOK like it's about to pour and there are tons of POTS lined up for possible MG/BCD and then just as quickly they disappear, change their minds, etc. Very easy to get over-confident and think it's in the bag only to find oneself with ones own pecker in their hand! Still the roller coaster ride is worth it.
Nothing like a tight pussy gripping your bare skin - lambskin condoms are close, but it’s still a different feeling
And you can’t get it from a pro escort
A pro also won’t just lie next to you after sex and chit chat and get you horny for a second round . Or sometimes actually squeeze your head between her thighs as she comes uncontrollably
Well maybe one can find pros like that but I bet they cost a fortune like low to mid xxxx etc
Once you taste sugar experiences , you never go back imo
I would rather spend the energy and effort and if need be, go without sex for some time, but I just cannot bring myself to see pros anymore , fwiw
Yes , these SBs can be unreliable, can ghost you, take your money and scam you — and I have seen that too, but it’s worth it
That's so right. The benefits of sugar are so much more than being with a pro, for all the reasons you mention. It takes a lot of effort to find the right fit but when you do, a good SR can last for many weeks and months, possibly longer!
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