This board is specifically for people who want to ask questions of a pyscho-sexual nature to a qualified therapist. A question like this should be posted on the Newbie Board.

That being said, we're getting a ton of similar queries these days from folks who aren't making much effort to inform themselves. As a new member of TER, it would be nice if you spent some time poking around the resources on the site – the FAQs and other things. These will answer a lot of your questions. You'll find a wealth of information.

BTW, you can only execute true CG with hats, chaps, boots and spurs. On this site, we are all totally into it. Have you ever tried it like that? You just need to be careful to not stain the chaps since they are kindof expensive.