LG

not to beat a dead horse. After our prior exchange on taking a long time to climax, I have had three other dates (separate ladies), and the fact that it took me a long time to climax was a source of extreme pleasure - not soreness or frustration

but for other lady who got frustrated (and we spoke about the performance competition) I believe there may have been other issue. She had indicated she had a weekend before our Monday date. Could she have been sore from extended use?  I intend to see her again, and don't want to be preoccupied with performance

Impossible to say, next6mos,

The unvarnished truth cannot always be expected from professionals - they have an image to maintain. Who knows if she was sore from "extended use" or just had enough of you?

If you want to avoid any potential miscommunication or frustration, then go see the other separate ladies. If not, then book with her again and take your chances.

It's not an exact science (un)fortunately,
The Love Goddess

thnx LG
I will take my chances. We have communicated on issue and are closer to understanding. Maybe she had enuf that night but she is welcoming another date
But UR correct - it's the muscle between the brains that counts....

is amazing way to learn orgasmic control!
DIVINE

open to suggestion
release of ercetion is not a problem, just  elongate timimg