The Erotic Highway

Experiment with my results
chardonay 42 Reviews 959 reads
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This is not a scientific experiment but I wanted to try something and see what happens. I'd been with my main sb for a year now. She is sweet, funny and hot for my standards. We see each other once a week and sometimes twice. She had a family trip and was going to be out for a week and a half and during that time I decided on not having any sexual interaction meaning no porn, no masturbation, not even pictures of women in bikini. So my idea was to see her after she returns and see what happens. She returned yesterday and let me tell you I was the horniest ever after been with her for a year. I guess that if you restrain from any sexual activity your performance goes over the top. Now I am thinking that the media, tv, etc have ruined sex for everybody. Anyone tried something similar in the past?

With predictable good results. I've considered doing this but never have tried it intentionally.  I've had periods of enforced celibacy during which my fantasy life ramped up, for sure.  And a few periods where I was out of wifi range while sailing, so no access to porn either.  And returning to an active sex life is always wonderful.  But at my age I find a bit of porn helps me maintain a healthy libido.  Not looking to try your experiment any time soon, I have too many PYTs vying for my attention.

AnotherDonJohn48 reads

…increases the size of the first few loads. The glands as much as the balls need to release regularly!

I’m a weekend SD so abstaining from porn would be unbearable with my sex drive.  

The SB usu call and text to rile me up so I can give it to them on the weekends.  

I also have to talk to my wife  during the week (though we live in different places)… which is like getting kicked in the nuts.

I'll have to agree with Sweetman as another old guy trying to keep the juices flowing. I think 2-3 days abstinence is sufficient to keep an edge ahead of sex, but more than that tends to disrupt my chemistry and either dull the senses or make me finish too soon.

but on the other hand, all my furniture had teeth marks on it at the end of the fast.

 
Seriously though, it really depends on how hot you are for someone.   Just last weekend I spend an overnight with a gal and got off three times in about 12 hours.   Thanks in part to vitamin V.  (This was with a condom on to boot!)  
Normally I need a day or more to recover.

Something I've dealt with for a while. I have trouble getting it up the first time I'm with a woman, sort of. Use to be the case before like 10 years ago and the addition of viagra to my diet. Now, not so bad, but sometimes really bad. If it's a M&G and turns into bcd, I never go into a M&G thinking of getting sex, wanting yes, but not expecting, so popping a V and then hoping for sex and the spontaneity I can usually get it up at least for a little while. I have no problems telling them I'm nervous. I also spend a lot of time eating their pussy. Second time I'm with a woman no prob at all.

Over the last 6 or 7 years I've read about the "your brain on porn" and how's its rewired your brain and all that. Sounds reasonable. As a side note I'm seeing a sex therapist for the problem above. I want to be with providers, but usually couldn't get it up to the level I want. I might not be able to might not be my thing as I think I need some emotional connection. Anyway, my sex therapist doesn't believe in that theory of porn ruining you. I'm on the fence.

Anyway, I've tried the no porn no fap thing. For you, you have to find your rhythm and what works for you with your body chemistry. For me if I don't fap or watch porn for a week. Holy shit I don't even need a good scene to cum fucking hard. I mean toes curled enough to be mikhail baryshnikov. That's with Fapping. If I don't fap or watch porn then go have sex with a woman it's hard to get it up. I get backed up easily. I'm still horny, but can't perform, it's weird. If I go a few weeks same thing, I've tried a month before and same thing. That's the longest I've gone. After 2 weeks of no fap or porn I don't feel so horny physically, still mentally horny though.

I find that I need to fap at least every few days or it throws off my rhythm. I've also thought about fapping but not cumming and fapping and not cumming while watching porn before she gets there. I haven't tried this fully, but it seems like that might work as it's getting me all worked up. So it seems fapping and getting hard is more important than no fapping, meaning cumming feels good, but if I fap and don't cum at least I'm getting hard and getting all the juices flowing down there.

I still have some experimentation to do. Don't know if that helps.

Studies on masterbation and changes in testosterone levels have conflicting results. Probably because people respond differently. So experimenting with your own body is probably the best method. I know the more I masturbate, the more I want to masterbate the next day as well. Does that mean my T spiked?

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