There is no clock, So even if you are paying the girl say $700 - she hangs out with you all day and you fuck 3 times, it's not expensive.
I always hated the concept of a "clock" even the concept of a "clock-watcher" sucks. Also, you drop a hooker an email say to check up on some drama she mentioned while you were seeing her - and you should feel privileged if she takes the time to read it and hit you back? - and if it does not directly and immediately lead to an appointment you are a time waster... In the bowl the chick is just stoked for the attention, compassion and intelligent conversation (you know, just like real people)... Just because many hookers have a magic sea anemone between their legs does not mean they are great intelligent conversationalist and they are (in my opinion) lucky to have successful, intelligent men reaching out to them - calling that "time wasting" is the epitome of shallowness... Viva La Bowl...
Those are the ones that will lead off with "I need some money for the first date to prove you are serious" or some such shit, but by and large, except for those very mercenary "quasi hookers" masquerading as SB's, I agree with you completely about how great the Sugar Bowl can be.
Gambler I just had a pot SB ask for 150.00 just to go to dinner with me. I mind you that is after I've paid for meal and drinks..I can get laid by a pro who's a 7/8 ter scale. For 80 bux. So what's my incentive for seeing this uppity skank??
Some of you guys sound just like the guys on the regional and GD boards who whine about the "high cost of pussy" in the hooker world. Yes there are some hookers asking a grand an hour and yes there are some delusional POT SB's asking for hundreds of dollars just to "show up". What is so hard about just saying NO???
If everyone of us would say no to HDH's or delusional POT SB's asking for the moon and the sky how long do you think it would be before they gave up trying? Don't get mad, and don't get frustrated, simply skip the BSC POT SB's and concentrate on the thousands of girls who have realistic expectations.
I had a first date last night that was rather unique. I had been texting this 24 yo college student with nice pictures who got very explicit about sex early on. My spidery senses said tgtbt, but I thought plat it out. What's the roster that could happen. She showed for the date, which was positive and she definitely was the girl in the pictures, but something just didn't click. I knew she wanted to fuck but I didn't want to hit it and run. Just not my style. So I told her after we ate that I didn't want to do an arrangement. Her response was ok, but can we still fuck (no charge)? My jaw hit the ground. She ended up spending the night and fucked me multiple times when we got to my room, then again at 3:45 am, and again at 5:30 am before I kicked her out to go to work. My ass was dragging all day. Lol
And then there's GPS....I had one TER 9 (by photos) ask for $600. Worth it, for sure, in lalaland. Then I got an e-mail out of the blue from someone who (by photos) looked to be about the same, but who wanted $1K - TBNT. I just got an e-mail from a TER 6 who wanted $500 (uh, no), while last night I was out with a TER 8 who's looking for more around $300....
I find it interesting to see what these women think their value is....
While the highs are definitely higher with SBs, the lows are not really that much worse than in the hooker world. All in all, it's a win for us. The only downsides to the sugar bowl are the time spent on flakes and catfish and to some degree, rejection. While we generally get to see any hooker we want to see, many hot SBs will never message back. If there weren't so many of them, I might actually care.
Actually, I'd say the "lows" are not really that different (with non-pros) than dating civvies. Some will want to meet once, twice or more before they feel comfortable going BCD, some will just not be into you, some will not be into you but will be happy to let you buy them dinner, some will flake (have you ever been stood up on a 1st civvie date?), some already have BF's (or SD's) and are just testing the market, etc. And yes, some will be out to rob you.
I think that's the way most newb SB's rationalize entering the sugar bowl. They see it as an extension of how/who they date today with the following changes: 1. Older guys ('cause they have $$$). 2. More upfront about when sex is going to happen and what they will get for it. 3. Don't need to/want to introduce her new "BF" to friends/family. 4. Optional: Can still see (i.e.: fuck) that cute guy on the college football team (or other SD's, or ??). In other words they can embrace their inner whore with no negative ramifications.
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