I probably would not sugar date if I had to limit my SB's to over 35. And I definitely would not if I had to stick with SB's over 40. Yes, there is an argument that the bedroom skillset may improve with age. But the baggage increases exponentially as well. I won't make that trade off of 10-20% better skills for 50-100% more baggage.
The last time (in 2018) I had a M&G with a woman over 40 (she claimed she was a 43-year-old divorcee. I suspect she was at least 50), she made the following remark less than 15 minutes into our dinner date: "I think you can really straighten out my 22-year-old son. His father is a bum." NOPE, NOPE, and FUCKING NOPE!!!!!!!!!!!!! I excused myself to take a pee, gave the waiter $75 to cover drinks and appetizers already ordered, and bailed out the back door.
My sugar sweet-spot is, and always will, be 18-25, with exceptions only for extremely hot and slutty model types with no kids (I hope) and active-career porn stars with reasonable (less than $1k) allowance needs for multi-hour dates.
So no, friend netnoy. No guilt at all. I'll be 63 this month and I started sugaring in 2012. Even with the increase of ROB's, GPS and other "noise" in the system, I've enjoyed every orgasm across (conservatively) 80-120 women. I take particular delight in fucking women (18 and over, of course) who were born in a later century than I was.
Life is good
The Cat
My sweet spot is and has always been 18-25. And remember, I'm 77. I simply don't understand what you would be guilty about. My current #1 is just 23 and loves our arrangement. We're both getting a variety of needs met, and it's totally consensual. So what's there to feel guilty about?
I doubt any of these girls are virgins. So sex is not really the issue. It would only be sex for pay that may be an ethical issue. I guess there the only age question is if it is something that they aren't yet old enough to understand the consequences if any.
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But if you treat them well and respectfully, it is probably a better experience than she has with guys her age.
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So I don't think it is a big issue. My youngest was 18 and I'd do it again, but I don't have specific age ranges -- I'm more into variety and also enthusiasm.
Bailed on 18 (by 1 month) a few weeks ago. Hotel meeting scheduled, started talking about school the day before, and she was in HS (cancelled day of). Thought she was in college. Oops.
Flip side seeing (19,20,21) with no issues. They are all out on their own.
Circumstances matter.
