The Erotic Highway

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sympathyforthedevil 54 Reviews 800 reads
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Let's face the line between SB and a pro is razor thin. The other say I got a like from a cute Asian SB on  the site. I messaged her. Got no reply. Today I got an email from Slixa (which I don't subscribe to) saying thereafter new lady in town. Surprise! It was the same lady from the SB site. Only now she wants $1000 per hour. Lol

I'd report her as an escort to SA with the email.  Keeps the hoes off the site.  I'd prefer to separate the two.  When I want an escort I'll look for one.  When I want an AB I'll look for one

Like Herb I don't like to draw attention to myself and anything I might do or say, which could invite some pushback.
The other thing to consider.. maybe not in this case, is that you can have an escort who is a legitimate SB. Either reitred as a pro or having a separate relationship. Strippers, escorts, porn stars all need love too...

AsianManNOVA61 reads

I have an SB who became a low-volume provider last year. She had an ad on Eros for a while but took it down. She still has an ad on models world. I do pay a much lower rate than her escort rate. She has three reviews and I wrote the first one. My first regular SB from eight years ago also became a full-time provider several years ago. She doesn't have time to see me as an SB anymore so I stopped seeing her (it's not profitable for her so it makes business sense). She is also well-reviewed here.

There are some women who are self professed sex workers, others who shy away from that ID.  But who cares, really?  If the relationship you have with any particular girl is satisfying to both of you, it's a mutually consensual,  mutually beneficial arrangement and the labels are not important.  I used to date Pro escorts, nuff said.  I've had a few "SBs" who said they loved getting paid for sex and were supporting themselves with what they thought of as sugar dating.  They identified as part time or full time sex workers, but not as pro escorts. I've had some   SBs who truly were only interested in getting laid and getting paid, not clock watchers like the pros, but the encounters were usually of the one hour variety, so very little difference.  And I've had some SBs who have become real friends, with deep emotional ties and many shared activities beyond the bedroom.  Those, I think, we'd all ID as SBs.  And I don't know what to call my most recent new lover.  Yes, I met her on SA.  But she was there to fulfill her long held fantasy of fucking an old man!  Which I was delighted to fulfill for her.  She did not want any money from me!  That blew me away.  She liked the contact method on SA, having a chance to communicate and vet her potential old man lovers without actually meeting anyone until she made her choice.  After that it was closer to a civvie "affair" than a sugar arrangement.  But whatever it is, I am not concerned about the labels.  It is what it it, and it is def sweet!

kippyy54 reads

Had a meet and greet with someone I met on Seeking. Arranged a date and today I found her on Tryst as a 1K/hour escort (the allowance we agreed to is about half of that). In her ad, she also spends some time at a brothel in Nevada. My initial feeling is surprise and disappointment. While we may indeed establish a good relationship, I'm on Seeking to avoid escorts, and am now concerned about a higher risk of STD's. That being said, her agreement to a much lower fee than she gets as an escort may reflect she desires a more emotional component in her relationships. Should she have shared with me that she escorts? Any thoughts or experiences are appreciated.

I think escorts are less likely to spread std's than bimbo SB's.  In fact I think it is pretty well known that sex workers are "cleaner" than the general public.
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One reason for an escort to double life on a SB board is to maintain her high pro rate and also make bank on otherwise unfilled hours.  She earns nothing just sitting at home.  Better to get the $500 if she has no $1k clients, but can't ask $1k if it's known she'll do it for $500.
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And I don't think we should out pros on SB sites.  

Even escorts can have personal dating needs.  

 
I don't mind when an escort puts up a profile on Seeking.  As long as she doesn't push me to act like a client by asking me to do hooker-type screening and paying hooker-type rates (i.e.: hourly, upcharges for MSOG, etc.), I'm ok with her desire to date older guys in an arrangement context. I have had more than one SB who either worked as an escort in the past, or was actively escorting at the time. Some told me, some did not.  Arrangements, by definition, mean each party has a private (yes, I get the irony) life that is not shared with the other party.  I don't go to church and her family dinners with my SB's (there have been exceptions), and I don't take her with me to my friends' and family gatherings (again, exceptions exist).  

 
So I wouldn't sweat it. Unless... she tries to blur the lines.  I will close with an observation that most of my arrangements with SB's who also escort did not last more than several weeks to a few months (last time - exceptions exist). But while they lasted, the sex was great and the drama was generally nonexistent.  

 
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