There are sites/apps used by escorts to screen potential clients. Members can post comments about clients/potential clients. It acts as sort of a blacklist. It is possible, if you’ve ever used it have been screened by an escort that this is what she is referring to. She may be “an escort in disguise” and if she has a membership would have been able to look you up there
So I was messaging with a POT on seeking, and she made what I considered to be a wildly excessive ask in terms of a PPM. I politely declined, which upset her and she accused me of being a time waster and game player. Then she said other girls have said the same thing about me on the "girls forum."
Is there a girls forum on the site where the ladies discuss the guys or is she just making shit up?
I've not heard of any such forum that "lists" discusses or doxxes accused SD's of offensive behavior by name. It is my guess she's just making shit up to create as much vitriol as possible. There are a lot of deranged crazy women out there who are bitter and angry. There are also scam rings and scammers who try to shame you or blackmail you into sending them money, so there's that angle. It's a real cesspool and it's getting worse. I've grown so tired of it.
Really sorry to hear you're encountering so much crap. I've been lucky, I guess. I have not encountered anyone seriously batshit crazy in years. There are some who want more than I can offer, so GPS is still rampant. And I had an exchange with an obvious pig butcherer, who I strung along for a while just to waste their time till I got bored with it. Mostly, I'm finding "real" women who may or may not understand how the bowl works, and who may or may not find me appealing. Just normal stuff. I think the difference in our experiences may be due to our locations. It makes sense for the scammers and gold diggers to concentrate their efforts in the big cities, where they figure they are most likely to encounter a truly rich guy. They'd be wasting their time out here in Siberia. Why troll for a whale in a puddle?
Not aware of a forum on Seeking but there is a fairly widely used phone app by SBs called "Mr. Number," a forum in which users can post anonymous messages about the individuals who own specific phone numbers. Paying a reasonable monthly fee gets access to this info by entering any number, public or burner.
I found one post on myself. Wasn't deeply disturbing, but basically said I was a "nice guy" but warned that I couldn't "afford" this particular SB. Naturally, I have no idea who posted this.
I tried the reverse approach by searching for numbers of a number of SBs I have encountered but never found anything, so I'm dubious about its utility from our perspective but if you want to self scout you might buy a month's access to check it out.
There are sites/apps used by escorts to screen potential clients. Members can post comments about clients/potential clients. It acts as sort of a blacklist. It is possible, if you’ve ever used it have been screened by an escort that this is what she is referring to. She may be “an escort in disguise” and if she has a membership would have been able to look you up there
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