Well this was a surprise. Connected with a lovely lady on the SB site and we had a brief vanilla chat online. I set up a meet and greet over dinner. At some point over dinner I expected the usual discussion about arrangement needs and wants. Boy was I surprised that she was actually looking to date like in the civilian world. Why she picked that site was beyond me though she was on Hinge and other ones and I honestly think she thought it was just another dating site. I'm open to relationships so I said yeah. She's hot looking and we clicked quite well. Going dancing next weekend. Who knew? Though I don't think the site is going the way of SA in terms of attracting people with a variety of expectations I guess you could say this experience may have been the exception that proves the rule.