While the recent post regarding the monger who experienced emotional manipulation from a provider was mis-posted on our board rather than the general board, it's a good reminder to be on one's guard. As older gentlemen our feelings and thoughts can easily be swayed by these young beauties. While many SB's are honest and well-intentioned, there are also conniving manipulators out there who will take you for everything you have. It's an old-as-the- hills scam but it's it's still a potent danger. The guiding principle here is 'Never lose your head over a piece of tail.' Easy to say but when the poon is in your face it's hard to think clearly. Caveat Emptor, gents!
@adonis48 I've been there too...it was alot of damage LOL Considering that I was very experienced but sometimes the little head takes over the thinking.
I recently had a POT who came on very strong sexually at the beginning. But, after a M&G where I clarified my expectations regarding sex. we went on a date and I offered up some allowance. Only when I pushed the BCD issue did she tell me about all of her BCD limitations. I bowed out of the arrangement.
I guess I should be grateful. My tunnel (hmm) vision was so intense that she might have led me on for a few more dates/allowance cycles before I finally figured out that nothing physical was going to occur.
It's the Wild West when it comes to sugaring. There's no safety net and no reviews to look up so these girls can be as crooked as they come and you won't know it till you and your cash are parted. At the same time, there are far more success stories than horror tales or so it seems, but be on your guard. Herb has given us some very good advice on safeguards to put in place before doing a BCD. The M&G is really essential to the screening process, and even Seeking advises the M&G and the BCD should be on separate days.