Unless she is enforcing a drink minimum, I think you should give it a go.
But a question...Do you have to share the sugar in $1s?After a couple of days exchanging messages with a POT SB we started to text outside SA and I just founf that she works as a stripper. She is a gorgeous woman but I have to admit that I was not that happy to learn about her job. Don't get me wrong, i have nothing against strippers, is just that I don't know how good can they be as SB. I quit going into strip clubs long time ago after I discovered the hobby and my experience with strippers is that they are always looking to drain your wallet. Is not my ideal type of SB. I am very generous with my SB but the beauty about the bowl for me is the similarities with a real relation. Any thoughts?
IMHO, strippers are excellent candidates for POT SB's - if you are optimizing for a pure p4p arrangement.
1. She won't get hung up on the idea that selling her pussy makes her immoral or cheap.
2. She already knows that you expect sugar for sugar, so will be ready to negotiate
3. She is probably thinking that sex with a SD is much safer, better, reliable, and "socially acceptable" than sex with random drunk assholes who wander into the club and offer cash for extras.
4. She knows that sex in the club is illegal and risks getting arrested, while sex with her SD is legal (or at least not illegal).
5. She has a job so is looking for supplemental cash, not desperate for rent money.
6. She has a job that provides exercise so she stays fit (mostly...)
7. She has flexible hours, easier to accommodate her SD's schedule
8. She get's treated like meat all day long and will likely appreciate being treated with respect and "spoiled"
Caveats:
1. She may, as you mention just be trying to suck the cash out of your wallet and will try to play you like the drunk assholes mentioned above. In that case, she's really just an "under the radar pro" and is definitely offering extras in and OTC to customers for as much cash as the market will bear.
2. If she is a closet pro, make no mistake that she is sucking as many dicks for cash as she can fit in her mouth - both in and out of the club.
3. Beware the actual pro who wants to play you, especially if she has a pimp.
Strippers are the most high maintenance women on the planet and experts in "charging the most and giving the least" in the words of the GEICO commercials "It's what they do"
I have dated a lot of strippers over the years and with few exceptions once you give a stripper a single penny you are forever a "mark" in her eyes. Hookers are a thousand times more honest than strippers and usually a LOT less maintenance. The only way to successfully have a stripper in your life is to be "kind of a jerk" You can't be a "nice guy" and be in any kind of relationship with a stripper. She has guys crawling all over her non stop, every single day, telling her how hot she is and trying to buy her attentions. Unless you have more money than sense, outbidding these guys is an effort in futility, the only real way to date a stripper is to play on her insecurities, and that requires being kind of a jerk.
Clearly, (and fortunately!), you and I have been fucking different strippers. :p
Although I will concede that the type of stripper you describe exists in the wild in abundance, they are still individuals. As such, you will find all types of personalities, motivations and value systems across any given population of women who strip.
So perhaps it comes down to the well known cliché; YMMV.
Case in point: I have a stripper in my rotation who lives one state away. When she occasionally comes back to my area she always offers to drop by for fun. My 1st encounter with her outside the club was negotiated at 250 for p4p. Now she's happy to take 100 or so and still insists on swallowing a 2nd pop just because she "likes the taste."
I will neve stop repeating the the "adage" YMMV, it is precisely the point.
I found myself nodding at both of the "opposed" comments above.
GaG, while I bow to your much more extensive experience, my encounters with strippers are decidedly mixed. I managed to catch one stripper on her first day and SA and after 24 hours of texting, she came to my hotel room at 5 AM(!) when she got off from the club. Subsequently, she wanted more money for repeats and was just as you described.
However, two others, one a pro and the other a SB, are not like that. Both hot as hell, into the sex, and SO grateful to get decent treatment from a guy. No games, no plays for more money, and the very pleasant thing compared to, say, the college girl SBs, is that they're straightforward about the sex, will do anything(!), and just fuck my brains out. They know why we're there, they don't object, they're into it themselves, and....it's just pretty great.
So, I don't know about the strippers. I need to go collect more data. Excuse me...
but I have seen a couple in the last year or so through SA. One of them started with a ridiculous "ask" after a rather pleasant "get to know each other" dinner of $850 for an hour or two. I laughed at her and after some negotiation we settled at $300, still a "bit high" for my area, but within reason. The sex was just so-so and I never bothered calling her again. The other wanted to meet at the club, which I did, black girl, decent looking, more of a hooker experience than anything else. I also saw her only once, She only asked for $200, and I didn't bother negotiating and I suppose in the hooker world she was a bargain, but not in the Sugar world.
I had a LOT of stripper experience many years back, but "most" strippers are really fucked up, a huge percentage of them are all fucked up on drugs, they tend to be very flighty and I have found that "most" of them mistake "kindness for weakness", but yes I have had a lot of fun with them and they are not ALL that way, just a very high percentage of them in my experience.
Unless she is enforcing a drink minimum, I think you should give it a go.
But a question...Do you have to share the sugar in $1s?
Maybe I have just been lucky. I am currently seeing one now. She is easily 9.5 on the TER scale; 23, just graduated from cellege, stripping while looking for a real job, beautiful face, natural D, 5'9", between slim and athletic build. She lives in Richmond which is about 2 hours from me. She would drive up to see me without asking for more money. Never order any expensive entree or wine on the menu. The only minor complaint I have is she is not very skilled BCD. Well, you can't have everything. I am very happy with her. Come to think of it, none of the strippers I saw were very good in bed, but they were all very sweet and definitely not gold diggers.
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I dont go to strip clubs anymore but when I did I had 2 interesting experiences.
The first was in vegas. Unbelievable body. Met her at OG. Saw her 3 or 4 times over 2 years. Great fuck. But she kept upping her ask. Then she got pissed when A buddy wanted to see her. I got im not a hooker line.
The other was in my hometown. She jerked me off in the vip. Suggested we meet at a hotel. We meet in the lobby. She is wearing nothing. The clerk is glaring at me. She is up for anything but I has whiskey dick. Too bad her ass was available. A week later a guy at my golf club asked.....how was bamby...wtf
Sadly, the good old days at OG are now far in the past and will likely never return, at least in Vegas.
I also have experiences back in the 80's and 90's in Vegas at several clubs. Those few that have survived, are now just high-pressure rip off shacks praying for some naïve conference-attendee schmuck from Ohio or Japan to wander in thinking they will get laid by a 19 year old Asian stripper for couple of Jacksons.
There are still strip club-friendly cities in the US where extras can be found in abundance... but that's a post for another board.
I've had a couple of good experiences with strippers and agree with everything posted above. I think you do have to negotiate a little bit harder and be on higher alert for potential scams or pimps but that's all.
I met a pot SB tonight at a strip club where she works as a cocktail waitress (says she doesn't dance there.) We first connected via SA. It appears she's been on SA for over a year.
She seemed eager to meet, not a lot of chitchat via SA. I threw out my suggested tribute and she readily accepted ... says she will take care of booking a hotel room for tomorrow evening.
Says she's been a waitress there for four years. Also has a few other jobs, like nanny. Pretty hard worker it seems.
I wonder what being around strippers has done to her outlook in things like this -- were they a bad influence? Also I don't know how much "activity" she gets from gents schmoozing her up at the club but if she is on SA they can't be filling up her limited time between her different jobs.
Well, maybe answers tomorrow -- if she doesn't flake (but really doesn't seem like the type to flake.)
So my current favorite is a stripper and it turns out, a unicorn. She’s surprisingly low maintenance. She started off asking for the ridiculous amounts she easily commands but after a couple of visits, I’ve just been paying for activities. So while I generally agree with what’s been said about strippers here, you really just never know until you know. Sometimes you click with someone and they get as hooked on you as you are on them.