Just trying to see if it is me or the norm. Have been doing this for close to a year, had a couple of great meets, and a couple not so good. Made some friends along the way.

In talking with with most SB’s, I have noticed none have had a father figure in their life or they experienced a major life changing event as a child. Could have these events created a lack of love, trust or of lack of security? Below is just a couple of observations.

SB-1 adopted from  as a small child from Venezuela, never met her birth parents. Her parents here appear to have given her a good life, however I sensed her step brother (biological) was the favorite.  

SB-2- Never knew her dad, mom immigrated from Asia, she became pregnant and dad took off. Her mom had 4 other kids  with different men. She has no relationship with her siblings and a strained one with her mom.

SB-3 Parents divorced when she was 6 or 7, father had zero involvement growing up or till this day. Raised by her Mom.

SB-4  Parents Divorced when she was a teenager, Dad ran off with his assistant. She disowned him and his side of family.

There is definitely a correlation here and some similarities, unless It’s just me, lol.

Curious to see if anyone else noticed this same trait with their SB’s.

In my experience there are a lot of SB's from "broken" homes. But then 50%+ of all traditional marriages (in the US) fail. So  it's not unusual to meet a Gen X, Y, Z or millennial who has a missing dad or other childhood issues with parents (and extended family).  

 
And before you get too excited about leveraging this for personal advantage, be careful of those who have slipped past a desire for replacing Daddy's love with a healthy insatiable lust, to those who have reached complete sexual disfunction. I recently posted about an SB I had to let go; 23, half Asian/White, super-hot (9+), great body, eager to learn and loved affection. BUT, she was regularly molested (i.e.: raped) by her biological father from ages 6 to 16 while her biological mother was totally aware and did nothing.  And the pattern continued when other males she met coerced her into sex in exchange for support. I loved fucking her, but once I had the full understanding of her life, I absolutely could not continue to exacerbate her pain. Sugar dating is all about mutual consent. But when one party has been routinely abused and has no belief that she can say no, it's no longer consensual.  

 
So be mindful of two things, please:  
1. Don't assume that being from a "broken family" tends to lead to Sugaring (or stripping, or hooking, etc.) when half (or more) of the young, female population come from a single-parent family.  
2. Be the adult in the relationship that can teach her what a healthy consensual relationship looks like, instead of the creepy older male predator who gets asked to "have a seat" when Chris Hansen walks into the kitchen.  

 
Now to address your actual request; yes, I do see the same traits in many of the SB's I've dated if I ever got to know them well enough to learn about their family story.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat