Started texting a new POT this morning. After 2 messages on site, she sent her cell and asked me to text.
I sent a "hello it's me message" and about 2 hours later got a reply: "hi how are you"
I asked her how her search is going. I often do this to try to move the conversation forward into what she's looking for and to get a general sense of her personality and temperament.
Her reply was somewhat convoluted:
"well, to be honest with you not so good I'm meeting people that tell me they just want me to come to their house and fuck me but yet they're not gonna give me a dollar or do anything for me or help me right now. I'm doing instacart trying to make money to feed my son. I'm not a escort or a hooker and I don't wanna fuck anybody for a dollar."
Let's break this down:
1. She is not looking to be ran through for free, which implies she wants cash for BCD.
2. She wants "help" feeding her son, which implies she's desperate for financial help, but...
3. She insists she is not an escort or hooker, which implies she's not interested in getting paid to fuck.
Anybody not confused by this? Of course, I empathized with her getting treated poorly and told her I am looking for a friendly, casual arrangement.
She told me she needs to back to work (delivering?) and will contact me later today after she gets home.
Not making any big bets on this working out well... but I'll ride along to see where it goes.
Life is good
The Cat