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svenodyo76719 29 Reviews 1773 reads
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Guys have you ever had a unicorn you were seeing long term then suddenly her profile dissappear from SA?  Is this how these arrangements end? Usually w/out warning? I texted her to find out if we're still on. Getting crickets. Ghosting.. :((

hobby4881 reads

Yes sir it's over.  She has moved on and the specialness you thought was there.  That's gone too.

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herbtcat84 reads

Happens at least 30% of the time...  

Reasons?  I can only speculate (since she ghosted), but here's some possibilities:  

1. Found a bigger wallet.
2. Found a bigger cock AND a bigger wallet.  
3. Didn't really like (fucking/smelling/sucking/eating with, talking to/driving to) you.
4. Arrested.
5. Moved.
6. Found (insert religious flavor here) and changed her ways.... at least until her rent is due next month.  
7. Boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/father/mother/clergyman/pimp found out  

Consider yourself lucky you got some good BCD time with her. I've had a few who ghosted on the day we were supposed to close the deal.  NCNSwBB (NoCallNoShowwithBlueBalls) totally sucks.

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airmantroy69 reads

#7 most likely....
#4...not a reason for her profile to disappear.

But you are correct, she will show back up somewhere, at sometime.

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svenodyo7671980 reads

The deal was this..by our 2nd bcd she was supposed to see me for free afterwards if I spent time wining /dining her. But everytime I made a date with her to do that,  she'd blow me off..but I never said anything about it, acted like nothing was wrong. And just kept fucking her for the next 3 months. But at a minimum of 120 a visit..so she's a liar on things of our arrangement anyway. Our last bcd visit, my spider sense told me there was something not right with her. It was a subtle thing. But it was there.

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scb1987 reads

that since you described her as your unicorn she was more than up to snuff in the looks AND performance AND you were fucking her for $120/visit?  Yeah, I'd be crying too.

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BlueeyeJack115 reads

...explain to me how you didn't have her personal information - like cell number?  Everyone of my previous LT SB had each others personal number and we knew each other's real name.

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svenodyo7671966 reads

I do have her phone number. And know her real name..I shot her 2 texts yesterday. (Verbatim ) hey I seen you profiles gone. It's jim, everything ok? Then gave her my sa screen name..Heard nothing yet. But, she's always taken awhile to answer me. And, it's no way that's because of a larger cock..u.s. condoms don't fit me girth wise..lol wallet size, you betcha! I'm  a cheap fucker..

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easternpacific115 reads

sounds like a combination of #1, 2, and 3

sure it's a disappointment, don't let it last more than say a couple hours?  which is the time it takes to  sign in, peruse some sb profiles and get back to plucking a few new ones

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sweetman135 reads

My most intense amazing arrangement lasted over a year with a sweet little honey I was foolish enough to imagine would be my friend forever.  Our connection was sexual and emotional, but more surprising, it was intellectual as well.  Then she said she needed to take a break from all social activity for her mental health, but assured me we'd get together again.  That was 2 years ago.  No response to messages, email or texts.  But her profile is still up on SA!  And I see she logs on every once in a while.  Not sure if she's still Sugar Dating or not, but whatever, she's not with me.  I just have to be glad I had her when I did.

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herbtcat101 reads

...you may have inadvertently described how the SD and SB perspectives about the sugar bowl differ:  

As an SD, I think of this as an ongoing lifestyle shift away from civvie dating (and marriage) to managing and replenishing a sugar rotation. As long as I have the funds and the libido, I intend to continue this for the foreseeable future - assuming I don't get stupid and marry one of them.  

For the SB, I think they see it as a temporary approach to a temporary situation - not having enough money to support their chosen lifestyle.  They never start out intending to make this a, ongoing, sustainable lifestyle.  It's a means to an end. And even if it is (mostly) enjoyable because they found a nice guy who fucks well and takes them to glamorous places, it's still just a way to get to some goal like financial stability.  

So if I am correct, it should be expected that many SB's will disengage from time to time to "hop out of the pool" as it were and towel off before diving back in.  

I've never met an SB who told me she just wasn't getting enough sex, although GaG, SFtD, and sweetman may have. :p

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GaGambler92 reads

It was after a fuck fest of about three hours of almost non stop sex and I was joking about her "leaving me" someday and she replied "if you can fuck me like that every night I am NEVER leaving you"

Of course a few months later she ghosted on me, but it was fun while it lasted.

 
I pretty much agree with your outlook on how SB's and SD's look at this. I look at all SB's as temporary, but not the SB world, I think most SB's look at the SB world as temporary. I of course don't look at it as a "lifestyle switch" as it's not that much different to me than the hooker world, especially the hooker world in other countries where the prices and the "blurring of the lines" are very much like the Sugar World here. I do find it ironic that I pay almost exactly the same amounts of money in the Sugar World here as I pay in the hooker world in Costa Rica.

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sympathyforthedevil85 reads

Everyone in sugarland has something that ain't quite right. The goal is to find a fun lady who's at the moment not showing too many outward bsc traits . But eventually she will.  

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svenodyo7671996 reads

Guys, this is a hard pill to swallow. Cuz I kept my game tight with her..did everything right..at least what I thought was right. I never pursued her. Let her come to me everytime and ask for the bcd/ gift..then I'd simply go play with her..she'd say: Hi cutie, want to come play with me for 120 ? She was great. Right to the point. I'd come in and put the gift on the nite table and she'd throw it at me, and say stop! I'm not an escort.lol but, when I was leaving I'd slip it in her hand..very playful we were..did everything BBFS. Best piece of tail I've ever had..I've got 27 pro reviews. None can come close to her in looks and performance.  Oh well..it's over..better suck it up fuck.

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top89 reads

disappeared for 4 weeks and I didn't hear from her at all. Then she popped up and asked for her allowance.  Told her right after you show up at the house or boat. Point is don't give up, she may resurface. In the mean time go shopping!

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svenodyo7671976 reads

After 4 wks she shows back up!!  Did you ask what happened to  her??

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sweetman96 reads

Said she was too stressed out with school, a crazy roommate, changing jobs, etc.  The entire 8 month school year came and went.  Then she texted me all friendly and we got back together and picked up where we left off as if nothing had changed. So you never know!

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top93 reads

I knew this and forgot, her ex his an asshole and she was between jobs. She also changed her cell provider. She is coming tomorrow to make up. I guess I will see where it goes.

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JustSayMyName89 reads

My last three non semi-private regulars stopped using the site right after seeing me because they had to look no further.  

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sympathyforthedevil51 reads

Needs cash

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