I recently jumped back on Brandon's site where I have enjoyed many adventures over the last decade. But everyone here is right - the tone there has definitely shifted.
It was hader than ever to find what I was looking for - a combination of looks, intelligence,  sweetness and a keen understanding of how arrangements truly work in the traditional sense.
My patience paid off and I found a great girl who was willing to meet for drinks and do a vibe check before proceding to the advebtures. Conversation over drinks lasted 90mins and it felt like a date. I sent her a photo earlier from my room of Chandon, a thoughtful card, and perrier waiting if things go as we hope.
To drinks I brought a small gift bag witg a thoughtful gift of a book she'd mentioned in our texts.
She appreciated all of those gestures.
When we got to the room she immediately noticed I had placed slippers at the Vegas balcony door. She immediately said You think of everything.
What followed was 5 hours of non stop play, talk, cuddle play, shower, play on the balcony, bath, cuddle, play, talk......
I essentially had to shoo her away bc it was 2 am and I had a 5am flight.

Through it all she complimented the little touches really matttered to her. She even said I gave her too much gift - she uses that number to weed out the flakes. And next time she wanted less from me bc she had such a good time.

I just wish I was in her City more these days.
She was an all time Diamond in my experience.

 
I had it whittled down to her and one other woman. The other woman was far more Barbie in her photos and via text more obviously willing to play guaranteed. The thing is... Whike the play with her would have been memorable because of her body and appearance... I think the sexual ENERGY created with my eventual choice was 10x better. I gambled on the "good girl" and it turned out she qas open to being wooed and won and adored abd she turned into a firecracker in the room.

Thanks everyone here for your advice and wisdom. It helped this time around.

Which means restaurants will be more packed.  Hotels will be double.  

I'm doing it differently with my main.  Getting a hotel we both like in downtown SD.  Not her favorite, but reasonable price.  A friend of mine is a caterer.  I'm picking up a catered meal.  We are goin to eat in the room with candles and flowers.  A round of sex.  Go out to the bars in downtown.  Another round of sex.  Fall asleep together.  Hopefully one more round of sex in the morning.  Breakfast and then drop her off.

Side chicks are all new so they get nothing.

Dg, it sounds like you’re doing everything right to get what you want.

 
The Brandon dynamics are definitely changing. You dug in at a granular level with one girl who clicked with you. Well done.

 
You’ve now set a new baseline for this girl. It’s a floor, not a ceiling, for her future expectations!  

 
I took out a 19yo SB last night, midway between her birthday and Vday. It’s early in our relationship so I killed two birds with one stone at very low cost.

 
Rockford

Good going DG.  I assume from this post that you were looking for someone to play with while on an out of town trip.  So this was a first time meet.  During your initial conversations with her, id you make it clear your meeting ight be jsut a one time thing?  Did you ask if she'd be open to that?