So after watching this thread, finally jumped on SA. Not counting the girls messaging from out of area, I came across several using my desired search criterion. First one did lot of texting once initial messages were exchanged, then in private email she told me that she would like 500 a meet or 3-4K a month, sort of a lot cause she was in late 30s, so I bailed. Second one, cuter and younger was slow to respond back, even after sharing private emails, we have not been able to schedule a meet and greet session. Third, after sharing private photos and private email, directly shared a nude picture and told me that it will be 300 for a meet, I guess clearly a hooker but nice looking so scheduled a meet up. Then there were some that I messaged but did not get a response and some messaged me showing interest that I did not like. So overall a good start.  

Now questions for pro, how to plan for initial meet and greet? And do hookers found through SA any different that ones reviewed on TER? No, the SA girls emails were not in TER database, I checked.

The real big difference between SBs and ladies from TER is the ladies from SA really are clueless that they have real competition from pros. They also have no idea what they are worth. Both hi and low.

Had a lady over last week. Probably could charge 400 here on looks. But no kissing and no BJs. Not a great provider. She felt that she vould easily make $1000 per hour lol. Her logic (???) was that she's a nice clean lady. Unlike the ho's here. I had to really bite my tongue. Didnt she just take money from me to fuck

I recently did the same.  Joined SA.  Am engaged in communicating with three potential SBs.  One came across as  a provider (stated her rates up front and were in line with what has been discussed here-$200 per hour plus being paid for travel time).  Working the numbers she gave me, it came out to the same as provider though.  She had very limited availability so I dropped it.

Am scheduling meet and greet with others.  One appears experienced in this, so not sure if she is a provider.  I am also interested in any advice on the initial meet and greet.

The fun thing about the SA site is I'm communicating with 7 or 8 SB's that all want to meet me.  I put some effort into my profile and it seems to have made a difference and they ladies are saying that I have managed to stand out from everyone else.

I have found one SB who I really, really like and I can't really call her a SB any more.  No money has ever been involved.  I'm debating about stopping talking with the others and just see where things go with her.

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I was really, Really, REALLY trying to avoid buying VIP on here but how else can I contact you? I think that I have just spoken to someone who resembles this SB's description and if you fcuked her already, then I must avoid her

No, but seriously! Is this lady tall, blonde and from NC? Kinda loopy too? (aren't they all?!) If she's the same, I rather avoid the trouble because I think that she's BSC as she has called me out of the blue a few times without any incentive or provocation on my part, and we haven't even frigging met yet!!!

Alright, been back on SA with a completely clean slate (this is my 5th stint) under a brand new moniker (I start fresh every time with the exception of the 1st and the second time). Because of previously mentioned budget restrictions (I'm with Zangari here) I have not been going crazy and totally out of control to keep some powder dry. So far I have had one score with a P4P and as also previously stated I do not recognize her from the local escort market but I strongly suspect that at the very least she's either a vegas hooker or a quasi hooker and club atmosphere girl. The physical interaction was fine and IMHO better than some of the 300 interactions with the providers which were on that now defunct local review board (these ladies list their services for +100 here on TER and SftD can vouch for this).

As for POTs, currently working on two but one really sounds like this crazy broad that SftD has already bedded. No offense my mongering brother but I will most likely pass on this one as she thinks that she's worth at least 500 (like a dinner date whole kind of thing) but she also thinks that she ought to get 1000! OK, most likely a pass even at 500 for a night out on the town and then fun BCD as she really now strikes me as BSC!

Have had to turn down 2 already without any meeting. Both were 20 and behind with rent who wanted to start an immediate arrangement like yesterday! I really feel that I could have had them for 200-250 but I'm not that desperate yet and when they're so desperate, it actually turns me off!

The one good and promising POT that I have, is a bit older as compared to younger college babes (31 YO) but still 22 years my junior! Very intelligent, writes very well, amusing missives and can be a great muse but is looking LT arrangement and I think previous Daddy has spoiled it for me a bit financially or OTOH it all could be a bunch of hot air and negotiating tactics. I don't have a problem with an extended 500 per meet but I do have a problem with 4 x per month. Fcuk me! Time to grovel to GaGa and hit him up for a loan

She looks tall in her pics but isnt. She just moved here from LA.

Ah, you are a pro, and acting like one.

GaGa should run a trust fund for noobs, while we all should plan a group event for him, he so deserves for giving such good tips.

Now a student wants to meet up to discuss car loan help and wants to be friends and may be intimate. What do you say, bite or not bite?

BTW I had toned down my budget and salary etc. a bit and that made interest go down. I had to raise it back to get the attention in the bowl. So these SBs do pay most attention to finances, not so dumb!

Thanks SftD, they're not the same nevertheless this one totally seems BSC. Called again out of the blue twice late last night and then says all of a sudden, "I've got to call you back" and then poof! Decided already that I won't be meeting her. I've never played with AZN babes, so I'm going to be concentrating on a couple of AZNs plus the other one who seeks LT.

Sorry, just realized that autocorrect had decided that "noonish" was a better replacement word

FWIW, I don't state Net Worth, state income 200K which is pretty darn close and also I selected "Practical" as my preferred Allowance in that field. For job description I fibbed and put something related to medical because that gets their attention (sales not care provider / physician) and a very close friend of mine with a very successful med operation will vouch for me if need be. I will be more honest if and when I meet them, otherwise for anonymity, I have fibbed a bit (stated height 5'10" instead of actual 5'9" and 51 instead of actual 53 - I could pass for 47-48 but I personally feel better that I'm in my 50's!).

Other than that a stated income of 200K will indicate to those SBs who have a semblance of sense that this is not the kind of guy who will pay 5K a month and if they're so gullible and stupid to think that I'm a 10K a month allowance twat, then what does it matter because they do not comprehend finances or real world numbers anyway, meaning that they're just min wage and mostly uneducated with barely a HS diploma kinda plebs!

who want my attention.  Some will pan out and some won't, but I should always have a nice supply of fresh playmates to enjoy.

Putting nice big numbers in for your net worth and income? I did that (they are not completely unrealistic, as it happens, but I am still a cheap bastard). I cannot count the number of ladies who have contacted me, and I have zero problems getting lots and lots to reply. And no, I do not think any of this is because I am cute (not), witty (well I think so) or otherwise some kind of catch.

Just saying...

Zig

Ok, now scheduled to meet some young SBs in 20s this week and not sure how the meet and greet will go. Any tips?

Hobbying is easy and there is no dating involved, where the sugar bowl expects us to have some dating skills.

Do NOT call it a meet and greet when communication with them! This is a crass term which has infiltrated the hobby from the business world and it totally smacks a businesslike attitude and atmosphere. It works for providers but it's a turn off for SBs. Do not refer to it as M&G in your correspondences!

Zangari has addressed your Q on multiple occasions here.

Won't call it M&G anymore, yes Zangari and GaG are the life lines of support on this forum.